Another GREAT Daddy, Daughter & Son Day...or as we're calling it from now on, "DDS." 😁🙌🏾
Of course we started at IHOP because I'm convinced my daughter has a lifetime membership. 😂 Both of her besties work there, and watching them laugh, catch up, and exchange the latest relationship updates warmed my heart. Translation: "Who's cheating, who's breaking up, whose relationship might survive, and who's the brokest." 🤣🤣🤣
One thing did catch me off guard...they all agreed one dude had a right to cheat. 😳 I don't know the whole story, but it reminded me that there's always two sides to a situation. Proverbs 18:17 says the first story sounds right until the other person speaks. Wisdom will save you from judging too fast.
I also noticed they're getting better at speaking in code around me. 🤔😂 I guess being friends with your dad on social media means you eventually realize...he might turn your conversation into a sermon or a Facebook post. 🤣🤦🏾♂️
The biggest surprise? My kids volunteered to pay for stuff. I almost checked to see if Jesus had already come back! 😂 Their generosity reminded me of the woman who poured expensive perfume on Jesus. Love doesn't always talk...sometimes it gives.
Then my son treated us to the movies. I wanted to see Minions. My son picked Odyssey. 🤦🏾♂️ My child chose a literary classic while I chose yellow cartoon chaos. 😂
I also learned Lawrenceville and Snellville are practically neighbors. I wanted to hit the Conyers theater, but the kids said, "Dad...the A/C barely works, the seats are questionable, and the floor is stickier than a church potluck dessert table." 🤣
The movie was good (I'll post about that later), but the real blessing wasn't the film...it was spending time with my biologicals. Those moments are worth more than money. ❤️
Spending quality time with family is something I treasure deeply, and reading about this "DDS" day truly resonated with me. There’s something amazing about sharing simple moments like breakfast at IHOP, where the sounds of laughter and candid conversations create an atmosphere of warmth and connection. Being able to listen to my children open up about their lives, even when it involves gossip or relationship drama, is priceless—it’s a window into their world and an opportunity to teach valuable lessons, much like the reminder from Proverbs about hearing both sides before making judgments. I’ve also experienced the subtle shift when my kids started speaking in code or changing their texting style because they know I’m watching. It’s both amusing and a sign of evolving communication dynamics as children grow. Being friends on social media with my kids means I have to embrace the role of both parent and audience, sometimes turning their stories into thoughtful reflections or humorous posts. Another powerful takeaway is the generosity of children when they want to contribute without being asked. It’s an unexpectedly heartwarming moment, reminding me of stories like the woman pouring expensive perfume on Jesus—acts of love that speak louder than words. The movie choice battle between Minions and a literary classic is all too familiar! It highlights how different preferences within a family can lead to playful negotiation and compromise. Also, practical advice about local theaters—in this case, Lawrenceville and Snellville being neighbors and avoiding less comfortable venues—adds a relatable touch to planning family outings. Ultimately, it’s the time together that holds the greatest value. In today’s busy world, these moments of connection, generosity, and shared experiences become treasured memories that money cannot buy. I encourage everyone to create their own "DDS" days—simple, intentional gatherings that nurture bonds and build family stories for years to come.


























































