Bcuz searching’s exhausting, lonely, and draining?
Here’s a thought, early dating’s mostly guys chasing girls, not that the reverse never happens but it’s definitely rare. So does that mean the average guy settles for a partner, just cause good options are hard to come by?
Like, maybe if he waited a few more years and kept looking, he’d find someone way more suited. But instead, he says yeah she’s solid and commits because searching’s exhausting, lonely, and just plain draining.
Compare that to girls these days. If we want, we can hop on a dating app and go on 50 dates in 50 days. We get to sift through people, really pick who fits. But the average guy might get 3 dates in 3 months. So when one girl clicks okay, he’s like this works instead of waiting for better. Does that imbalance in the dating world push guys to commit to someone they might not otherwise?

I'm still waiting for a partner wanna help each other?too