They always get it🫶

From my own experience, feeling understood is one of the most comforting things when dealing with inner struggles like self-hate or social anxiety. When the questions like "why do you hate yourself?" or "why are you scared of making the smallest mistakes?" resonate, it shows how common these feelings are yet how isolating they can feel. What really helped me was realizing that people like Jeongin, Seungmin, Hyunjin, and others who 'get it'—whether they are friends, idols, or even strangers—offer a unique kind of validation. Social anxiety or fear of opening up can feel overwhelming, especially eating in front of others or trying to keep a smile on your face. The acknowledgement that this is understood by others helps lessen the burden. I also found that sharing these feelings, even in small ways or through creative outlets like journaling or art, opens up a path for connection. It’s not about fixing everything at once but accepting that sometimes we feel 'too much' or struggle with constant effort. Changbin’s and Jisung’s empathetic approach to feelings like social anxiety and trying too hard shows that these emotions don’t have to be faced alone. For anyone going through this, it’s important to remember: you’re not alone, and there are people who genuinely understand. Taking small steps to acknowledge your feelings and find supportive communities can make a huge difference. Remember, it’s okay to take time to open up, and these shared vulnerabilities build strength and resilience over time.