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You don't have to figure it all out

I get it, its the last day of the year. You feel terrible having not accomplish anything worth celebrating. Not gotten that driver's license, not getting rid of that toxic friend, haven't saved up your first $50k.

The thing about this is, it isn't a competition, it isn't a strict timeline you need to follow. You can get that driver's license anytime you want, when your schedule allows. You will eventually get rid of that super toxic friend or out of a toxic relationship when you find the courage to do it. You will get to that $50k some day, its just not gonna be this year.

Yes i also get that setting goals are important but it doesn't have to be the end of the year. You can set a goal ANYTIME, why feel the need to be pressurized and stressed at the end of the year?

Know that you surviving everyday is the greatest acheivement. Surviving in this world full of hate, jealousy, doubt is worth celebrating. Know that getting through this year was tough but you have the right resources to get you through. Know that what you are doing is enough, anything more than simply surviving are just bonus points.

You are doing great my friend, you are not alone and you never will be. You can do anything you put your heart to it, just take it slow and steady at your own pace and you'll be where you need to be.

#MyPOV #RealTalk #reflections

2025/12/31 Edited to

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