What’s the best advice for new mommys in this era?

Becoming a new mom isn’t for the weak! There are many emotions that goes into how a new mommy should be and sometimes you can beat yourself up for not withholding that standard to yourself and to others watching!

I’m a mom of 5 and now a welita (grandma) I have the joy of watching my oldest daughter raise her son and the learning experience that she has been enduring is priceless!

What is something that you would tell yourself now as a mom that you wished you would have known as a new mom?#letschat #lemon8contest #newmom #momlife #mom

2025/2/5 Edited to

... Read moreBecoming a new mom can be both exciting and overwhelming in today’s fast-paced world. The journey is unique for each mother, filled with myriad emotions and challenges. One common piece of advice is to focus on self-compassion; it’s easy to feel unprepared or to compare yourself to others, but remember that each parenting experience is different. Another vital tip is to build a community. Surrounding yourself with fellow moms can provide emotional support and practical advice. Engaging in forums and social media groups can help you feel connected. Participate actively in discussions, share your experiences, and don’t hesitate to seek help if needed. Additionally, prioritize your well-being. Taking time for yourself is crucial; even short moments of relaxation can recharge your spirit. Establishing a routine can also bring structure to your day, making it easier to manage both your needs and those of your child. Finally, embrace learning. Every day will present new experiences and lessons, so keep an open mind and don't be afraid to ask questions or seek out resources. Being a mom of multiple children, it's clear that each stage presents its own set of challenges and joys. Reflecting on your past experiences can provide insight not only for yourself but also valuable lessons for others who are on their journey of motherhood.

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Even if your best is keeping the kids alive that particular day that’s all that matters

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Rest while they are resting

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