Dear Queen, are you being upfront?

Okay ladies I NEED answers on this one. 👀😂

Do you tell people you're a truck driver

on the FIRST date?

A) Yes immediately — it's a vibe check 🚛

B) I ease into it strategically 🤫

C) If they can't handle it, bye 👑

D) Write in your own answer 👇

TQ Ally wants to know and

we're not judging ANY answer. 😂👑

@thetqally

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