Yeah I would have to agree with her on this

In life, maintaining healthy relationships often means evaluating the energy and resources exchanged. When someone remains chronically broke and persistently depends on others—especially while only contributing minimally or in ways that don’t support shared responsibilities—it can create a toxic dynamic. The phrase "Stop taking care of broke ppl BAU" highlights a common frustration: the burden of supporting individuals with no intention to improve their situation or reciprocate. Whether this person is a family member, partner, or friend, if they continually drain your financial or emotional resources without giving back, it’s essential to recognize this pattern. Setting boundaries doesn’t mean you’re unkind; rather, it empowers you to prioritize your own stability and future. Keeping "excess baggage" that holds you back can limit your own potential and happiness. It’s often difficult to make such decisions due to societal pressures or fear of judgment, but true growth requires sometimes letting go of relationships that no longer serve your well-being. If you find yourself repeatedly supporting someone who refuses to change, consider having an honest conversation about responsibilities and mutual contributions. If that doesn’t result in change, it may be time to distance yourself and focus on building relationships that foster mutual respect and support. In summary, financial dependency without contribution breeds imbalance. Prioritizing your own life and respecting yourself means cutting ties with freeloaders to create space for healthy, balanced relationships that contribute positively to your well-being and future success.