How I have changed in a year
It’s hard to believe it’s been a year, but I have changed a lot, and if it weren’t for the people I lost and the people that showed me that there is better, I wouldn’t be who I am writing this today if it weren’t for them. I found myself in some sticky situations, but I got myself out, made new friends, new buddies, and people who will be in my life for hopefully the rest of it. I made friends through nursing school that will help me survive it, and I dropped the people who needed to be left in the past. While people may have dropped me, it was for the best. It is a year that is, if you need me in it, I will be in it, but the moment you drop me, I’m out, and I’m out for good. I know my worth, and I’m not settling for less, and everyone on this app should remember. You are an important person, and you have a worth that is beyond what you know now. If somebody is not willing to show you your worth or to give you the time you’re worth, they should not be in your life and do not settle for less. You are amazing, and never let anyone tell you otherwise.
Looking back on my own journey of change over a year, I can relate deeply to the experiences shared here about overcoming hardships and valuing oneself. The process of recognizing who truly supports you and who holds you back is crucial. When I went through similar challenges, especially balancing demanding responsibilities with personal life, I found that letting go of negative influences, though difficult, was a turning point. One thing that really helped me was focusing on building connections with people who lifted me up—friends made in school or in professional environments like nursing school can be lifelong anchors. They offer not only emotional support but also motivation to keep pushing forward through tough times. Self-worth is something many of us struggle with, especially after feeling abandoned or misunderstood. I learned that setting boundaries firmly and unapologetically is key to maintaining mental and emotional health. When someone repeatedly fails to show you the respect and value you deserve, removing them from your life is not just okay—it’s necessary. This mindset shift transformed my outlook. Instead of clinging to what was comfortable or familiar, I embraced new opportunities to grow personally and professionally. If you find yourself in a place where change feels overwhelming, remember it’s a sign of growth. Each challenge faced and each friendship nurtured helps shape a stronger, more confident you. Ultimately, every year of change teaches us to appreciate our own worth and to never settle for less than we deserve. Keep focusing on your growth, cherish the genuine connections, and don’t be afraid to leave behind what no longer serves your well-being.