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Episode 3: "We're not good at leaving."

👉 the person we ask him to still be 👈... Sometimes he chooses to be at a place that makes him more comfortable.

We're not angry. We just feel like "our hearts are too small" when we're silent after goodbye.

The word is over, it's not loud, it's just so quiet that we know there's nothing left to explain.

And then we started to realize that we weren't very good at leaving.

.. we still think quietly every night that the heart still loops back there.

But allow it to be a lesson that doesn't require a beautiful ending.

Because in truth, it doesn't always have to be cute..

# Second-hand mind shop

# When still missing

# The quietest departure

# The feeling of not being answered

# Grow up but the heart is weak

# Lessons that don't have an ending

# Still narrative

2025/8/1 Edited to

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