Automatically translated.View original post

To be honest, you don't have to fix your child's "troublesome behavior."

You are really tired of parenting every day 🌱

Why is my child angry again?

Do you ever have a night when you blame yourself?

Actually, as an 18-year speech therapist (ST), I have been convinced after seeing thousands of parents and children.

It's.

The difficulty of parenting is 100 times faster and easier to change the mother's "interpretation" than waiting for the child's "change."

That means.

At first glance, that behavior that annoys Mom,

If you change your perspective, you may be in the middle of "talent" or "growth."

10 Positive Transformations summarized on the slide

Please save it and look back when it seems frustrating.

May your heart be just a little lighter.

"This is exactly about my child!"

Let me know in the comments the number that blew your mind ✨

Let me take a look at everything!

May your parenting be a little easier 🌱

Parenting troubles Speech therapist # period # Education # Parenting tips

3/22 Edited to

... Read more私も子育てをしていて、「なぜうちの子だけこんな行動を…」と感じることがしばしばあります。しかし、この記事の視点に出会ってからは、子供の困った行動に対する受け止め方が大きく変わりました。例えば、子供が何度も同じ質問を繰り返すのは、単なる煩わしさではなく「安心を貯金している」という成長のサインと捉えることができるのです。 私自身、イヤイヤ期の子供にイライラしそうになった時に、この考え方を思い出して深呼吸をしました。好奇心旺盛な落ち着きのなさや、こだわりの強さも、実は集中力や意思の育ちを表していると知ると、叱るよりも温かく見守ろうという気持ちになります。 また、公共の場で騒ぐときも感情表現の豊かさの証拠と考えれば、自分のストレスも軽減され、もっと穏やかに子供と向き合えるようになりました。こうした「子供の行動の裏にある成長のサイン」を理解し、ママの「解釈」を変えるだけで、毎日の育児がぐっとラクになることを実感しています。 この記事の「10個のポジティブ変換」は、具体的な行動ごとに見方を変える実践的なアドバイスで、忙しいママたちには特に役立つでしょう。困ったと思う行動も、才能や成長の真っ最中と捉えれば、もっと子育てに自信が持て、子供とのコミュニケーションも豊かにできます。ぜひ保存してイライラしそうな時に読み返してみてください。あなたの子育てが、もっと温かく楽しいものになりますように。

Related posts

30 day self care ✨
Give yourself 30-60 days To become the best of yourself 👆🏽 Ladies WE RIDE AT DAWN! 💞📝 #selfcare🖤 #selfcarebaddie #selfimprovement #self #selfgrowth
AintThatNeja?

AintThatNeja?

1770 likes

Today, I was privileged to talk to Miranda Devine on the latest episode of "Pod Force One" about President Trump's "very troublesome" falling out with Elon Musk.
Susie Wiles

Susie Wiles

0 likes

The title slide for an article on time management, featuring a desk with a computer, tablet, and a pink neon butterfly light. The text reads: "Students... Your Time Management Sucks! here's how to fix it."
A pink slide titled "Establish A Routine" with bullet points on developing consistent daily routines, identifying productive times, including breaks, and improving time management. It includes illustrations of calendars.
A pink slide titled "Prioritize Tasks" with bullet points on differentiating urgent from important tasks, using a priority system, and focusing on critical assignments. It features illustrations of a pink pen and a paperclip with papers.
Your Time Management SUCKS | Here’s How To Fix It!
👩🏻‍💻 Being a student is one of the most important times in your life to master the art of time management! This one simple skill could make or break your semester! To have the best time management you need to: - Establish a routine: you can customize it however you want but you need to stick
CompSkyy

CompSkyy

92 likes

Don’t Waste Your Money on Etsy Ads!
Save this before you turn on Etsy Ads. A lot of Etsy sellers start ads before the listing is ready. They have a few products up, traffic feels slow, and Etsy Ads start to look like the next logical step. So they set a daily budget, turn on a bunch of listings, and wait for the sales to come i
Mocksy.io

Mocksy.io

8 likes

Structural Agency ~ Why Systems Shape Our Options for Behavior and Action
Not everything is a mindset problem. Sometimes the reason something feels hard, overwhelming, or impossible is because the structure around it is inefficient, complex, or unsupported. Your brain is designed to conserve energy. So when something requires too many steps, too much time, or too
withlovefromchelle

withlovefromchelle

6 likes

✨ When Your Inner Child Is Acting Out ✨
#girlgrowth #lemon8challenge Ever find yourself overreacting, feeling clingy, or suddenly drowning in big emotions? That might not be “you being dramatic.” It could be your inner child asking to be seen, heard, and comforted in a way they never were. 💔 Your inner child holds memories of:
Jessica Irene

Jessica Irene

177 likes

A digital tablet displays the cover of "The Art of Apologizing" ebook, featuring a cracked heart. Text highlights it includes an ebook and printable journal, with features like 6 chapters, guided prompts, and instant download for relationship healing.
A page from "Chapter 4: Rebuilding Trust After the Apology" discusses how consistent behavior, not just words, rebuilds trust. It outlines the three pillars of trust rebuilding: Consistency, Transparency, and Patience.
A page from "Chapter 4" continues, advising against expecting instant forgiveness and offering ways to support healing. It includes a reminder that trust is fragile and provides reflection journal prompts for self-assessment.
F***ed up? This helps you make it right & mean it
We’ve all said “I’m sorry” and still felt the distance... This guide is for the ones who really want to fix it, not just say it. 💔 Learn how to apologize in a way that actually heals 📝 Includes printable journal prompts that make you think…Because sometimes, “I’m sorry” just isn’t enough. 🛒 A
Fuchsia Rogers

Fuchsia Rogers

3 likes

Subject 6, Day 9: Delay Troublesome Responses.
Remember to keep your mind as home base and retreat if you need time to respond to something difficult. #mindset #grow #positive
Keith Hurly

Keith Hurly

0 likes

Stop treating the symptoms. Find your core fear.
The wellness industry spends too much time treating surface level symptoms. We try to fix our procrastination, our burnout, and our people pleasing habits, but we ignore the root cause. In psychology, the Enneagram framework teaches us that every behavior is driven by a single core fear. Until you
SkyQuiz

SkyQuiz

0 likes

You shouldn’t have to beg! #fyp #foryoupage #dating #couples
Skarxface

Skarxface

3 likes

You didn't change. Their behavior did.
You didn’t change — the behavior did. And that’s exactly where the confusion starts. You internalize the shift. You blame yourself first. You try to “fix” something that was never yours to fix. But when the pattern changes and you don’t know why, your brain fills in the blanks
Melissa | Torch & Soul

Melissa | Torch & Soul

2 likes

👉3 things that quietly and covertly can damage your relationship: The ones that don’t look dramatic. The ones that look “nice.” The ones that slowly erode connection from the inside out. 1. Not wanting to rock the boat. So you go with the flow. You don’t say what you actually want. You
Erica | Relationship Coach RRT

Erica | Relationship Coach RRT

0 likes

9 pieces of advice
felt a little inspirational today. this is for whoever needs to hear it. it’ll all be okay and you’re going places 🫶🏼 #montana #advice #wordsofwisdom #western
jessi davis

jessi davis

203 likes

A handwritten chart titled 'Post Traumatic Growth: What It Is And What It Isn't' details its outcomes like new perspectives and increased resilience, and processes like reflective rumination. It also debunks myths such as instant recovery, uniform experience, closure, detachment, and a one-size-fits-all approach.
POST TRAUMATIC GROWTH ❤️
Here is a post traumatic growth, chart of what it involves, and what it doesn’t involve. When you’re dealing with healing from trauma, understand that everything happens in its own time. Don’t compare your timing to somebody else’s when your situations are completely different. You may recover a lo
ShireenTX🇺🇸

ShireenTX🇺🇸

88 likes

Some women approach relationships like a rescue mission, believing that if they can ‘fix’ their man, he’ll love them forever. 💔 Psychologically, this stems from the caretaker complex, where a woman feels her worth is tied to how much she can help or heal others. Often, this behavior is rooted in
The Lion’s Den

The Lion’s Den

1 like

They Call The Police, Then Get Charged With 3 Felonies and 2 Misdemeanors #cops #karma #bodycam
Bodycam Cops 100% 🧠

Bodycam Cops 100% 🧠

2 likes

The image displays the title "THE REAL REASON MEN LOSE INTEREST (IT'S NOT WHAT YOU THINK)" in black text on a light background, with a "lemon8" watermark at the bottom.
This image features the heading "Decenter Him" and text explaining that men lose interest when a woman's life revolves around them, making her predictable. A "lemon8" watermark is visible.
The image shows the heading "Be Busy" and text stating that men are attracted to women with their own goals and passions, making their attention more valuable. A "lemon8" watermark is present.
When a man is inconsistent, chasing him only teaches him that he can keep you with breadcrumbs. You don’t earn consistency by proving your worth — you earn it by setting a clear boundary and standing on it. One calm conversation is enough: “This behavior doesn’t work for me. What’s going to change?
That Feminine Energy

That Feminine Energy

30 likes

The "traditional" rules were designed to keep you in survival mode. As an immigrant creative strategist, I had to break them to build a real money engine. 💡 1️⃣ Stopped "Working Hard": I focused on Systems over Labor. Effort without a system leads to burnout. 2️⃣ Stopped Being "Humble": Silen
Leedia | Creative Strategist

Leedia | Creative Strategist

0 likes

Relationship Problems
#relationshipadvice #relationship #relationshiptips #relationships #advice
Harley Henry 💋✨

Harley Henry 💋✨

42 likes

🍋Let me be clear….
Let me be clear… I am not actually “using” anyone 😭 What I really mean is I stopped pouring love, effort, energy, and healing into men who were giving me nothing back. Once you stop trying to fix grown men… Once you stop trying to show them how to love you… Once you stop offering girlfriend b
nataliataigra

nataliataigra

1 like

Are you explaining… or just avoiding changing?
Are you explaining… or just avoiding changing? Clarity Series | Mirror Work #13 Let’s be real for a second. A lot of people aren’t trying to fix anything. They’re just getting really good at explaining why they don’t have to. Explanation sounds like: “I didn’t mean it like that.” “T
Clarity-seven

Clarity-seven

3 likes

When a man says he loves you but dismisses your feelings when you're hurt or emotional, that's NOT love, that's MANIPULATION!! #fyp #viral #womanpower #relationship #relationships #relationshipadvice #Manipulation #hurt #love #feelings #Dismiss
Stayrealbaddies

Stayrealbaddies

1 like

panessieward540

panessieward540

2 likes

You saying things “right” isn’t the fix
Sometimes women think if they could just explain things the right way, their partner would finally understand. But when someone repeatedly dismisses your feelings, ignores your boundaries, or flips the conversation back on you… the issue usually isn’t communication. It’s respect. #genuinelo
TheUnveiledTherapist

TheUnveiledTherapist

11 likes

A child sits on a gray couch, holding a book, with overlay text: "WAYS TO RESPOND WHEN YOUR CHILD DISRESPECTS YOU (Without losing your cool)". This image serves as the title card for parenting advice.
A child sits at a table in a play area, illustrating the first tip: "1. STAY CALM & COMPOSED" with a quote bubble suggesting a calm discussion.
A person's legs are covered by a blanket, with a child's arm visible, illustrating the second tip: "2. ACKNOWLEDGE THEIR FEELINGS" with a quote about understanding frustration.
Ways to respond when your child is disrespectful
When your child is being disrespectful, it’s important to respond in a way that teaches rather than escalates the situation. First, stay calm and composed. It’s natural to feel frustrated, but reacting emotionally can make things worse. Take a deep breath and model the self-control you want them to
Kelly Cardoso

Kelly Cardoso

14 likes

Acid peel!
This is my most dreaded part of my skin care routine! I haven’t done it in several years! And it shows! I always do it in the winter. I do my most troublesome areas first. Let that heal and then do the other big areas one by one! I will do my entire forehead next, let that heal and then do my cheek
Bridgett Jenkin

Bridgett Jenkin

3 likes

Back on this platform just to make sure I’m heard. Indie animation deserves better, it CANNOT be built with the weak foundations of R4cism and vicious behavior. I do not tolerate R4c1sm, even the kind YOU think is harmless and funny. It’s not. #tadc #digitalcircus #glitchproductions #goosewo
Rosetta Sun🔮🦇

Rosetta Sun🔮🦇

3 likes

Read this before you think about quitting
#howtogoviral #tiktoktips #girlssupportinggirls
Eliot Payne

Eliot Payne

1 like

how I found out I was dating a married man #storyCrazy #Crazytime #crazytimes #crazytimessnewss #crazytimess #crazytimes🤪🤪 #crazytimeez #crazytimegd #crazytimeisfuntime #crazytime😜😜😜 #storytime #storytelling #storytimes #storyteller #story #storytimemakeup #storytime
fixdip.usa

fixdip.usa

0 likes

I’m often asked how I feel about ABA. Both ABA and NeuroToggle target behavior and skill development. The difference is not the goal. It is the model. ABA explains behavior through four functions: attention, escape, access, and sensory. But none of these account for autonomic states. Figh
Kimberly Kitzerow

Kimberly Kitzerow

0 likes

and tips to fix them!
in order to get to the point of having a great dog who can be trusted both in and out of the house, a lot of work is required. most dogs don’t come pre-programmed to pick up on cues and desires of their owners without training. some common habits dogs pick up that are generally deemed “bad” are
cockapoogeorgie

cockapoogeorgie

343 likes

WOW 🤩 Simpsons Link In Bio #fyp #viral #tiktok #simpsons #trending
Chiraq Bully

Chiraq Bully

3530 likes

trinity Leann Marie

trinity Leann Marie

0 likes

Most financial advice assumes people make decisions in calm, stable conditions. In reality, many people are operating under chronic financial stress. When a system (a person, a household, or even a company) is under prolonged pressure, it does not optimize for long-term growth. It optimizes for
Rachel

Rachel

1 like

When Life Feels Heavy, God Remains Faithful 🫶
Psalms 50–61 reminds us that God desires more than outward religion. He wants a heart fully surrendered to Him. In seasons of failure, fear, betrayal, and uncertainty, these chapters point us back to His mercy, His righteousness, and His unfailing love. These Psalms declare a powerful truth: Go
Britt Diane

Britt Diane

22 likes

BLAK JEZUZ - “Troublesome Freestyle”
#blakjezuz #troublesome EDITED AND PRODUCED BY⬇️⬇️⬇️⬇️⬇️⬇️⬇️⬇️⬇️⬇️⬇️⬇️⬇️⬇️⬇️⬇️ ( @LEMONSQWEEZELILGHO$TDOTTGO )
LEMONSQWEEZELILGHO$TDOTTGO

LEMONSQWEEZELILGHO$TDOTTGO

1 like

Read with Me 🤍🌸✨
#lemon8diarychallenge Good Evening Everyone, I hope everyone’s day has been great. Mines is wonderful. I am currently on my way to camping. It is 4 hours away from where I live. Wish me luck 😅😅! I got my favorite wing place for dinner which was Wingstop! I obviously had an early dinne
Lynn 🤍

Lynn 🤍

11 likes

You had 1 shot, 1 opportunity and this is what you say? 🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀 typical male behavior 🤓 #coldplayceo #coldplayconcert #coldplayceohr #coldplayaffair #ceocoldplay
Roam with Rasha

Roam with Rasha

0 likes

TUBBY-WORLD TROUBLESOME SNIPPET/EDITED BY LILGHO$T
#lilghost #troublesome @LEMONSQWEEZELILGHO$T EDITOR @TUBBYWORLD OWNER OF SONG//CREDIT GOES TO ONLY TUBBS 🥷🏻 ON BRONEM
LEMONSQWEEZELILGHO$TDOTTGO

LEMONSQWEEZELILGHO$TDOTTGO

2 likes

See more