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うっちぃ｜19年目の言語聴覚士・3児の母
うっちぃ｜19年目の言語聴覚士・3児の母

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3-5 years old _ To moms who compare themselves with other children. What I want to tell from a speech therapist of 19 years

"I wonder if only my child can't do it..."

There are days when you think like that at a nursery school or a park.

However, I feel that I have been involved with many children for 19 years,

The speed of growth is really different for each person.

To the mother who was consulted saying "I still have tantrums" during the interview,

I often ask, "How does it compare to six months ago?"

Then,

"The number of times has decreased." "The time to calm down has become shorter."

It's not uncommon for such words to come back.

When we are together every day, we see only the things we cannot do.

However, small growth is accumulating properly.

If you compare it, it's not the children around you, but my child from a while ago.

Why don't you look for one thing your child can do today? 🌱

If you have recently been able to do something with your child's growth, please let us know in the comments 😊

May your parenting be a little easier 🌱

# Childcare # parenting The development 3 years old Speech therapist

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... Read more私も小さな子どもを育てる母親として、周りと比較してしまいがちな気持ちはよくわかります。保育園や公園でお友達ができることが早いと、つい「うちの子は大丈夫かな？」と不安になりますよね。でも、言語聴覚士として長年お子さんと関わってきて感じるのは、発達や成長のペースは子どもによって本当に違うということです。 例えば、癇癪を起こす回数が少しずつ減ってきたり、以前よりも落ち着くまでの時間が短くなってきたりと、目に見えにくくても小さな進歩は確実に積み重なっています。私自身も子育てを通して、昨日のわが子と今日のわが子を比べて「できるようになったこと」に気づくように心がけています。これが子どもの自信や安心感につながり、ママ自身の心のゆとりをも生み出すのです。 また、「できること」を見つけると、イライラも減り、子育てが少しラクに感じられるようになりました。半年前の様子と今を比べることは、とても有効な視点です。言葉で自分の気持ちを表現できるようになった、遊びに集中できる時間が延びた、といった変化も大切な成長の証です。 もし、周囲の子と比べてしまって不安な時は、今日から「できるようになったこと」に目を向けてみてください。小さな成長の積み重ねが子どもの未来の可能性を広げていきます。子育てを楽しむ心の余裕が、やがてお子さんの自立心や社会性を育む土台になると信じています。皆さんも一緒に「できた！」を見つけ、毎日の子育てを少しでもラクにしていきましょう。