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Why doesn't it continue even though you're praising me? 3 more important ways to praise than "That's amazing!"๐ŸŒฑ

"That's amazing!"

"That's great!"

"100 points is amazing!"

Even though I praise you a lot,

Why don't the children continue...

Have you ever had such an experience?

Actually,

what makes children really happy

I feel like I was watching.

โœ” not just "I did it!"

โœ” "You challenged"

โœ” "You did your best until the end."

โœ” "I thought and devised it"

The way to praise the process like this,

It leads to the child's "Let's try again!" ๐ŸŒฑ

And then.

Another important thing is how to communicate.

Smile a little ๐Ÿ˜Š

Look at the child ๐Ÿ‘€

Tell a happy feeling a little louder.

Even just that,

The way we communicate to children will change.

But, uh,

It's okay if you don't like over reaction.

"I saw you ๐Ÿ˜Š"

It is enough to convey that feeling.

Save it.

Just try one tomorrow morning ๐ŸŒฑ

When you praise your child,

What words do you use often?

Let me know in the comments ๐Ÿ˜Š

May your parenting be a little easier ๐ŸŒฑ

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