#7: say thank you to each other more! Even for simple things!

A thriving marriage doesn’t happen by accident; it’s built with intention, love, and mutual effort. Here is what each of these goals look like:

- Take turns initiating intimate time AND planning dates. Fun dates. When both spouses put effort into creating fun, romantic, or adventurous experiences, it keeps the relationship exciting and balanced. This means each person initiates being intimate once a week, so two times minimum a week IF you want a passionate marriage 🙌

Alternating who takes the lead prevents either person from feeling burdened and shows that your marriage is a priority. Remember, date night doesn’t have to be out of the house—it’s about intention. Find 50 at-home date ideas in our bio link.

- Never raise your voice at each other! Disagreements happen, but staying calm and respectful prevents conflict from eroding love and trust. This also sets a positive example for your kids by showing them how to handle disagreements with grace. You can be mad and still be gentle, it is a form of maturity. Great goal to work on.

- Put your marriage before your kids. When kids see their parents connected, loving, and respectful, they grow up with a model of healthy relationships. Prioritizing your marriage teaches them the value of love and partnership. This is the best gift you can give your kids. 🎁

- Get healthy together. Get outside! Exercise, eat well, and support each other physically and mentally. It is part of marriage commitment to take care of yourself and stay attractive.

2026 is the perfect time to focus on these goals. By committing to these changes, you’ll strengthen your emotional and intimate connection and lay a foundation of love, security, and joy for your whole family.🙌

What goal(s) are you setting?

grab the goal setting printable at ultimateintimacy.com 🙌