I’m sharing my journey with you all from the childhood trauma that I didn’t understand until I was 35yrs old, to the abuse, the sexual assault as a child, my journey as a mom-entrepreneur, how I feel motherless when my mother lives less than 30 mins away from me, and trial and error as being a business owner. #youtube #mylife #mystory #fyp
Sharing my personal experience with overcoming childhood trauma has been a healing journey filled with both pain and growth. Like many, I only began to fully understand the impact of early abuse and sexual assault much later in life—in my case, around age 35. This delayed awareness often complicates healing, as it requires revisiting difficult memories while also managing present responsibilities. Being a mom-entrepreneur while dealing with these unresolved feelings has its unique challenges. On one hand, motherhood brought me joy and purpose; on the other, it sometimes intensified feelings of loneliness, especially when I felt emotionally distant from my own mother despite her living nearby. This paradox of feeling motherless while having a mother close by is not uncommon among survivors of childhood trauma, as emotional availability doesn’t always correlate with physical proximity. In my entrepreneurial journey, trial and error have been constant companions. Running a business while processing past wounds requires patience and self-compassion. I've learned to lean into vulnerability, connecting authentically with others who resonate with my story. This connection helps dissolve shame and fosters empowerment—essential for both personal healing and business success. One practical step I found helpful is setting boundaries with family members while cultivating a support network outside of blood relations. Engaging in therapy and support groups created safe spaces to share my experiences without judgment. Additionally, sharing my story publicly, such as through my show "TALK with H.Nychole," allows me to raise awareness about childhood trauma’s lasting effects and the complex healing path. It confirms that while the scars remain, they don’t define our future. For anyone navigating similar experiences, remember that healing is not linear. Embrace the small victories and seek communities that understand your journey. Entrepreneurship, motherhood, and healing can intertwine beautifully when supported by resilience, honest storytelling, and a steadfast commitment to self-care.
