Who cuts the umbilical cord?
Is it normal for the father to decline on cutting the umbilical cord? And if so who cut the umbilical cord at the time of your baby's birth?
In my personal experience and many shared stories from new parents, it’s completely normal for the father to decline cutting the umbilical cord. While some dads are eager to participate in this moment, others may feel uncomfortable or choose to show support in other ways. When the father opts out, the delivery nurse, midwife, or obstetrician typically steps in to cut the cord. This ensures that the process is handled safely and hygienically. Additionally, some hospitals encourage parents to delay clamping of the umbilical cord to promote better health benefits for the newborn, such as improved blood circulation and increased iron stores. The timing and who cuts the cord can vary depending on the birthing plan and cultural practices. Many parents find that choosing who cuts the cord can be a meaningful way to involve family members or celebrate the birth. For example, some families allow siblings or grandparents to cut the cord as a symbolic gesture. Ultimately, what matters most is supporting the mother and baby during delivery and respecting the comfort levels of everyone involved. In summary, whether the father cuts the umbilical cord or not, the important thing is the safe transfer of care to the medical professional present. Discussing your preferences with the healthcare team before birth can help create a stress-free and memorable experience for your family.
I'm from the 911 side. So my answer is a little different. If it's his first child, then yes. But it's mostly do to them not wanting to accidentally hurt the baby or mother. So whoever wants to will cut it. (I have cut 4 in the last 5 years.) I have only delivered 1 baby in my 5 years of 911.