Girlies, where are you?

#letschat I took advice from my last post regarding the influx of men on my tiktok. I posted for the girlies, added the hashtag #girlythings hoping that would work.

Still, the men remain. 87% according to my post insights. I’m truly grossed out.

I wanted this to be a positive experience for me so I’ll continue to be myself so I can reach my people.

My TikTok is the same handle as here if you’d like to help me out and flood my comments or anything really 🙂‍↕️🫶🏼

Thank you so much! ❤️‍🩹

#tiktok #unfiltered #need advice

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... Read moreIn the evolving world of social media, women's voices often face challenges amid male-dominated spaces. Using platforms like TikTok, it’s crucial for women to carve out their communities. With insights showing that a significant percentage of interaction comes from men, it can be disheartening. However, the focus is on positivity and authenticity. Hashtags play an essential role in attracting the right audience. Consider using tags like #girlythings, #womenempowerment, and #supportsystem to target your desired demographic. Engaging with other female creators can also amplify your reach and foster a supportive environment. Encouraging fellow women to comment, share experiences, and provide feedback can enhance the community feel. Navigating these spaces requires persistence and confidence. Your authentic self is your unique selling point. Moreover, mental health matters when dealing with online interactions. Creating boundaries while staying true to yourself ensures a healthier engagement. By uplifting each other, women can effectively reclaim their spaces in social media landscapes. Remember, the goal is to connect genuinely; every comment and interaction counts!

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I am so sorry men are the way they are. But hopefully it gets better over time .

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I honestly wouldn't sweat it too much. if you keep on being your true authentic self, your tribe will show up. 💜

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