most people SHOULD NOT homeschool their kids.
#hottake but most people shouldn’t homeschool their kids.
there are plenty of exemptions to this opinion but i truly believe that kids need to be in a structured educational environment and have the safety of being around mandated reporters and responsible adults.
there are a lot of issues with our education system but most people are not equipped and do not know how to teach or what goes into it. a lot of my friends are teachers and are pursuing or have masters degrees in education. both of my parents were teachers and one has a doctorate and over 40 years of educational experience. you need lots of schooling and practice to be a good educator. no tea no shade no pink lemonade but it is very concerning to me to see people i KNOW barely graduated high school embark on their #homeschooljourney 🤪.
school not only is about concrete education but is about social and emotional learning. kids can’t learn that just at home. you’re also exposed to different beliefs that may challenge preconceived notions about the world.
sit with your kid and help them with homework. get them a tutor. read to them. make them do workbooks and educational exercises outside of the classroom. unless conditions are dire, keep them in school and be an active and involved parent.
at the end of the day this is just my opinion as someone who grew up with a lot of homeschooled kids who were years behind and as adults struggle with not knowing history or other basic concepts
Growing up, I had several friends who were homeschooled, and over time I’ve noticed some consistent challenges they faced that align with the concerns raised in this post. Homeschooling requires a significant commitment—not only in terms of time but also expertise. Many parents, despite their best intentions, might not have the educational background or resources that professional teachers possess. For instance, understanding curriculum design, developmental milestones, and diverse teaching methods isn't straightforward and usually involves formal training, which is why educators invest years earning advanced degrees. Besides academics, one of the biggest advantages of traditional schooling is social and emotional learning. Public and private schools offer children a chance to interact with peers from varying backgrounds and beliefs, promoting empathy and critical thinking. These experiences help children challenge their preconceived notions and develop a broader worldview. At home, it can be tough to replicate this environment unless parents actively create opportunities for diverse social interactions outside the home. Additionally, schools provide a layer of safety through mandated reporters—adults trained to spot and respond to signs of abuse or neglect. This safety net can be missing in homeschooling situations where children might not have regular contact with such trusted adults. While homeschooling can work well for families with specific needs or exceptional circumstances, it generally requires a solid support system, including tutors, extracurricular activities, and a commitment to exposing kids to diverse perspectives. In my experience, when parents stay actively involved in their children's education, whether by helping with homework, reading together, or arranging additional learning resources, kids tend to thrive academically and socially. If homeschooling is considered, it’s essential for parents to plan extensively and seek guidance from education professionals to ensure children don’t fall behind in key areas like history and critical thinking. Ultimately, education is more than acquiring knowledge; it's about nurturing well-rounded individuals prepared for the complexities of the world. Structured schooling environments play a crucial role in that development, and homeschooling demands a level of dedication and skill that not all families can sustain effectively.
Omg this! every time I see someone say "when I have kids I'm going to homeschool them" I look at them like they are crazy. Growing up with 3 of my cousins homeschooled (pastor kids too), they didn't get ANY social awareness. They tend to say whatever they want, and don't pick up on social cues. The middle child, he is graduating hs this year, as well as us. He is not ready to go into the real world, especially because he also works. They wake up, go to work, and don't actually do their school. Even before they had jobs and did their work, they wouldn't even get through all of it in a day. I will always be a supporter of public school until I die. I grew up in public school, was it the best? no. I am currently in the hs that has the lowest attendance rate in Louisiana. We don't have great funds, we don't have great scores, but I will forever be grateful for what we do have, teachers who teach in order for us to learn. Sorry this was so long. TLDR: Homeschool sucks, public school 10000% better.