2 / 10 (Tue) Remembering My Mother💐
One year ago today, around 5: 30 a.m.
I woke up to a call from the hospital.
My mother's...
Hurry to the hospital.
Go back home once...
Call the hospital again around noon.
Explanation from the Doctor
Stay in the hospital.
The nurse came to call me...
Did you hear the voice saying "Thank you?"
Immediately after...
13: 16, confirmed dead.
Then...Deciding a funeral home rather than time to grieve
To decide the funeral...
Flapping...I don't remember much
One year since then
Yesterday before the first anniversary of today's death
mainly purple, which my mother liked.
I had a small arrangement made
As I asked for, beautiful flowers
i offered it to my mother's portrait.
This past year, I have kept flowers as long as possible.
About 4 years since I brought my mother from Kansai to Kanto
My husband's support was great.
thank you. thank you.
At the end of March at the family temple in my hometown
i'm planning to hold a memorial service for the first anniversary of his death.
In this season when there is a lot of snow
Homecoming by car is tough
i will consult with the chief priest of the family temple
Slowly after it gets warm...
When I'm alone every day
Sometimes I remember this...
Tears often come out...
Today's death anniversary...
Remembering my mother.
Spend a day
Gassho
💐 Fleur Message
🌼 always making wonderful flowers.
Thank you 💐# mother The Day of Death My time alone. # thanks
母の命日や一周忌を迎えるにあたって、私は自分なりの供養方法や心の整理を模索しました。特にお花は、母の好きだった紫色を中心に選び、毎日の生活の中で心の拠り所となりま した。花を絶やさずに飾り続けることは、亡き人を身近に感じるための優しい儀式のようで、悲しみの中にも感謝の気持ちが自然と芽生えました。 また、葬儀社選びや葬儀内容の決定は突然のことに戸惑うものですが、信頼できる専門家や家族、そして夫の支えがあったことで乗り越えられました。私は母を関西から関東に連れてきて約4年、その間夫の励ましなしには実現しなかったと思います。 一周忌法要は故郷の菩提寺で家族だけの静かな時間となる予定ですが、冬の寒さと交通事情によって延期。暖かい季節にゆっくりと故人を偲ぶことも、心と体の負担を和らげる大切な配慮だと感じています。 一人の時間には、母との思い出がよみがえり涙することもありますが、それも私にとっては愛する人を忘れないための大切なプロセスです。皆さんも、命日を迎える際は無理せず、自分らしい方法で故人を偲び感謝の気持ちを伝えてみてください。私の経験が、同じ境遇の方々の心に少しでも寄り添えたら幸いです。