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🗣️ How to counter negative criticism from "toxic people" in the workplace 🛡️

When you are dealing with criticism that is not constructive but full of prejudice from toxic colleagues, it is important to keep calm and use the right strategies. Here are how to cope professionally:

1. Keep calm and listen objectively (Stay Calm and Detached)

* Control emotions: Don't react immediately with anger or feelings of disappointment. Take a deep breath and count 1-3 to allow processing time.

* Listen only to information (Filter for Facts): Split criticism into two parts:

* Facts Section (Facts): Things directly related to the work and may be improved.

* Opinion / Emotion: What about personalities or feelings that are not related to the work?

* Use neutral language: Respond with non-binding sentences, e.g.:

> * "I understand you feel that way."

> * "Thank you for commenting."

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2. Ask Specific, Probing Questions

Toxic people tend to make vague and inspecific criticisms; asking for clear information will help you evaluate their words, and squeeze them into having to explain rationally (if any).

* Questions should apply:

> * "What part of the report do you mean is not particularly clear?"

> * "Please give a specific example of how what you say affects the job?"

> * "Do you have any practical suggestions to correct this section?" (If they don't have suggestions, that means they just want to criticize.)

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3. Confirm the scope and reject inappropriate speech (Set Boundaries)

If criticism turns into personal attack or disrespectful speech, you need to cut the script politely but firmly.

* Focus on the work:

> * "I welcome reviews related to the works, but I urge not to listen to comments about my personal personality."

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* Explicitly cut the chapter:

> * "If we can't talk professionally, I think we should put this conversation on hold."

> * "Let's focus on Project X's problems."

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4. Document and Seek Support

* Take note of everything: After a conversation, record the date, time, and what they say (especially inappropriate remarks or attacks). Having a note protects you if the situation escalates.

* Consult the Chief or HR: If toxic behavior clearly affects your or someone else's performance, gather evidence and consult superiors or personnel.

> 🔑 Key: Your goal is to express yourself professionally, and not allow their toxic behavior to take control or undermine you.

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