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Before being black-hearted✅

Every black heart of mine

It was full of kindness before.

.

1. Stop answering some chat, not because of arrogance

But because I used to answer every time

Then come back and fix my heart alone everywhere

So quiet became the safest way to keep your mind.

2. Do not go back again, not because of forgetting

But because I remember well how the previous time hurt, not turning back

Go further is the final remaining self-love.

3. Can't cut anyone out easily.

But when the day is done, it is the day that the heart is tired until

There's no strength to give anymore.

4. Not saying anything more does not mean not feeling

But because it was said, no one listened to the silence.

So it becomes the most obvious explanation now.

5. Do not reach out to help again, not because of being mean.

But because every time we help, we're the ones who hurt the most.

Kind people always become forgotten people.

6. No longer tolerating, not because of boredom

But because it endured so long that the heart began to bruise the cessation

Is to admit that it was broken a long time ago.

7. No longer smiling at everyone, not arrogant

But because I already know that some people are not worthy of the heart power that we

Give. Sincerity is too valuable to use blindly.

8. Don't explain anything again, not because I don't care.

But because I used to explain everything almost exhausted

But no one's trying to understand that anyway.

9. Not going back to talk again, not because of anger.

But because I started to see that some relationships

It's not to continue talking, it's to let it end peacefully.

10. No longer responding to all matters, not cold.

But because it was chosen not to bother everything

To remain silent is to choose peace instead of unnecessary hostilities.

11. Not to repeat the opportunity, not narrow-minded.

But because every time we get a new wound,

To admit that some people do not fit the word "again."

12. Don't run after anyone else, not arrogant in dignity.

But because of being tired of trying to be on one side

If anyone wants to stay, he won't make us run from the beginning.

13. Not easy to open up again, not arrogant.

But learning that some people just watch and don't want to.

Wariness therefore becomes a shield against regret.

14. Not expected from anyone else, not because of losing faith.

But knowing that real happiness is self-made,

Not waiting for anyone to make you feel good

15. Don't care about everything as before, not black-hearted

But because I used to care about everything until I was exhausted today

Choose care only for things that are valuable enough for us to really smile.

16. Do not apologize again, not because it is good.

But because some things aren't wrong, we can't keep quiet.

It means losing. It's wasting no time on things that never understand.

17. Not accepting every request again, not selfish.

But because knowing that being too kind is the trap that makes us

Forget yourself. Rejection is sometimes to protect the heart.

18. Not easy to love as before, not all love

But because I used to love until I forgot myself today, I want love

The rest is back to ourselves before anyone else.

.

@ w w w D i a r y

2025/10/19 Edited to

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