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What about your friends 🎶

Over 20 years ago I had a serious boyfriend… I was still very young right out of high school… this boyfriend wanted all my time… he really wanted himself to be my only friend - needless to say I lost a lot of my high school friends because everytime they asked me to do something I’d say no. Not because I didn’t want to but because he would give me the silent treatment when I got home.

Most people would blame this on age - yea, he was 14 years older than me but at the same time I’ve seen people with larger age gaps than that be successful in their relationships. But we were at two different places - he was ready for marriage and kids and I was just starting my adult life….

You’ll know when you have the right person. That person is secure in your relationship they don’t see hanging out with your friends outside of your relationship as a bad thing, they will actually encourage you to have friends because they know you need them. If you’re with someone that gets angry everytime you go out with friends or you stop going out with friends because you fear an argument when you get home - that person is not for you. Of course there are exceptions… but we will save that for another day.

Until then…

♥️

-Vee

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Many individuals struggle with maintaining friendships while in a relationship, fearing that their partner might view these connections negatively. It’s essential to understand that true companionship does not come at the cost of isolation from friends. In healthy relationships, partners encourage one another to nurture friendships, understanding that social support is crucial for emotional well-being. Communication plays a vital role; discussing your need for a social life can foster trust and openness. Furthermore, consider the signs of an insecure partner: do they become upset when you spend time with friends, or do they express jealousy frequently? These behaviors can indicate underlying control issues that may not manifest positively in the long run. In successful relationships, each partner supports the other's desire for a balanced social life, promoting personal growth and mutual respect. As you navigate your friendships and romantic relationships, remember the value of your connections outside of your partnership. They enrich your life and provide invaluable support. Ultimately, a partner who encourages you to foster those bonds is one worth cherishing.

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