Don’t let rejections stop you from doing what you love ❤️

Winning Project Runway Season 21 is living proof that when you truly believe in yourself, anything is possible. It might take years, heartbreaks, and setbacks — but every single step is worth it.

I’ve been a superfan since day one. I still remember watching Episode 1 and seeing Austin Scarlett win that very first challenge with a dress made of corn husks. In that moment I whispered to myself, “One day, I’ll be on that stage.” This show isn’t just about clothes; it’s about stories. Stories that show resilience. Stories that inspire.

As an immigrant, a trans woman, someone who has been told “no” more times than I can count, someone who has lost twice before… standing here as the winner of this iconic show means hope. It’s a reminder to anyone reading this: never let rejection or failure stop you. Let it sharpen you. Let it build you. Use it as your stepping stone. You are worthy. If I can do it, you can too.

From the deepest part of my heart, thank you to my loved ones, my family, my friends, my partner, my clients, and every single supporter who lifted me up. To my fellow designers — congratulations to all of us. This is only the beginning. We are all talented, and each of us has an audience waiting to believe in our work.

To the tireless producers, directors, writers, staff, models — everyone who makes this show possible — thank you. I wish I could hug each of you. And to Nina, Heidi, Law, Michael, and Christian — thank you for believing in me. I promise to use this win to grow my business so I can also help people.

For anyone dreaming of competing on Project Runway: prepare yourself. Enter with a winning mindset. Know your purpose. Hold on to it.

This isn’t just my win. This is a win for everyone who has walked this journey with me from the very beginning until today. You know who you are. Thank you for believing in me.

2025/9/30 Edited to

... Read moreThe journey to success, especially in highly competitive fields like fashion design, is rarely a straight path. It’s filled with challenges, rejections, and moments of self-doubt that test your commitment and passion. What makes a true winner is not just talent, but the ability to harness setbacks into motivation. The story of a Project Runway Season 21 winner exemplifies this beautifully. Despite facing multiple rejections and personal hardships as an immigrant and a trans woman, the champion’s persistence and belief in their purpose propelled them to the top. For anyone aspiring to follow a similar path, understanding that failure is part of the creative process is key. Rejection is often a reflection of circumstances or timing rather than a measure of worth or ability. Instead of letting "no" stop you, use it to refine your skills, clarify your vision, and deepen your resilience. Building a support system of friends, family, mentors, and community can provide the encouragement needed throughout this journey. Moreover, preparation and mindset are crucial. Approaching opportunities like Project Runway with a clear purpose and a winning mindset can shift how challenges are perceived and overcome. It’s about setting meaningful goals and holding onto them even when the going gets tough. The win is not just personal success but also a symbol of hope for others facing similar struggles. Engaging in this creative community also opens doors for collaboration and growth beyond competition. Sharing your story and unique perspective adds value to the fashion industry and inspires fellow creatives who relate to your background and challenges. Remember, every designer has an audience waiting to believe in their work, and persistence will connect you to them. Ultimately, the lesson is universal: Do not let rejection stop you from doing what you love. Let every difficulty refine and empower you. By embracing resilience, self-belief, and community, you can transform setbacks into stepping stones toward your dreams.

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