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💫 Becoming a Woman God Can Use…

Dear Virtuous Woman,

Becoming a woman God can use is less about outward perfection and more about inner transformation.

It’s a process of letting Him prune, refine, and reshape your heart to reflect His character.

Here are three marks of a woman God can use:

🌸 She’s Surrendered

She lays down her need for control.

A surrendered woman releases her grip on people, outcomes, and timelines so God can have full authority.

She understands that whatever she places in His hands will always multiply.

💫 Surrender looks like:

Be still, and know that I am God. — Psalm 46:10

🌸 2. She’s Set Apart

She guards her heart and her lifestyle.

To be set apart is to be positioned, God can’t use what blends in with the world.

She doesn’t follow trends or pressure; she follows truth.She’s mindful of what she allows into her spirit, what she watches, listens to, and entertains.

💫 Set apart looks like:

We must obey God rather than men.— Acts 5:29

🌸The Holy Spirit strengthens her

She walks in authority and humility.

A woman who walks with God doesn’t rely on her own strength. Being strengthened by the Spirit means knowing who you are in Christ and drawing power from His presence. Her strength flows from her prayer closet, not her platform.

💫 Strengthened by the Holy Spirit looks like:

My grace is sufficient for you, for My power is made perfect in weakness. — 2 Corinthians 12:9

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💍 Join our community by subscribing to my Linktree in the bio, where we are dedicated to empowering women to thrive in:

💞 Faith

💞 Femininity

💞 Marriage

✨ Don’t forget to share this with a sister who could benefit from it. 🫶

God bless,

Wakisha, The Virtuous Plan Coach 💞

#Lemon8 #lemon8creator #christiancontentcreator #AskLemon8 #womenoflemon8

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✨Many women pray for marriage. Few prepare for the responsibility of covenant.if you want to begin that preparation, download the free guide “Becoming His Safe Place.”Link in bio.

Amen🙏🏾❤️

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