We fight about it every week. Anyone else?

My husband and I keep getting stuck in the same argument, he just can’t seem to grasp that WFH is still real work, not ā€œhanging out at home.ā€ Today, I was buried in a project when he walked over and said: ā€œCan you run to my dad’s? His computer’s acting up, should be quick.ā€

I told him I had meetings this afternoon and couldn’t just drop my work to leave. His dad’s 20 minutes away driving there, fixing whatever’s wrong plus driving back? That’s at least an hour, maybe more. But he acted like I was being uncooperative. It’s like because I’m in the house instead of an office, he thinks I’m available whenever for favors. I’ve explained my deadlines, my meeting schedule, and it still doesn’t click.

This same fight every week is starting to wear on me. Am I the only one with a spouse who mixes up WFH with ā€œfree timeā€? It’s a real job with real responsibilities?

#WFH #Letschat #Asklemon8 #Stirthepot

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Tell him you do your work and I’ll do mine. Let’s settle on that. If he needs something he can take care of himself.

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My husband used to do this when I was working from home, not necessarily go out the house to run an errand, but he would ask me to do little things around the house and it’s like no I have the work from home job where I couldn’t just get up from my desk. They actually had cameras watching us and if we did go away for reasons that we couldn’t explain then we would get reprimanded.

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