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He won’t even look at me but I did nothing wrong

My dad and I used to be inseparable until 6 months ago. A DNA test dropped. I’m not his biological daughter. I confronted my mom and she finally admitted I’m from a long ago affair. She wouldn’t tell my dad, so I did.

He blew up at her, which makes sense but he got mad at me too. I have no clue why. Now they’re separated and he’s completely shut me out. No texts back, no conversations, just silence. I thought it was shock at first, but it’s been months he still acts like I did something to hurt him.

He’s totally normal with my little brother, his bio kid. My brother doesn’t know the truth, we just say we fell out over the separation. He goes to dad’s new place all the time, but I’ve never been invited. I miss him so bad. What should I do?

#Letschat #Asklemon8 #Stirthepot #FamilyStruggles

2025/11/3 Edited to

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The Beautiful life

Im so sorry love!! I have tears in my eyes right now, some men, aren't men at all, they don't know real love, but if you were ever my daughter, blood or not, you'd still be my daughter.

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