💔FOUND OUT HE WAS CHEATING ON ME WITH G*****
We were supposed to study together for our finals.
Same topics. Same test. Same pain. 📝
Situationship goals right?… or so I thought.
But then he started acting weird. Like… weird weird.
He started closing his tabs the second I leaned over. Tilting his screen away like I was trying to steal his passwords. He even locked his laptop to go refill his bottle. Who does that during revision???
So, I asked what he was doing.
He said: “Just looking at slides ah.”
Slides?? 🛝😒Ain’t no way mister.
I started… noticing things.
I mean… he didn’t stop replying or anything.
Still texted me goodnight.
Still laughed at my memes.
But like… the vibe changed??? 🥺
His “hahahaha” turned into just “haha.”
With a full stop.
Like why the full stop???
And he kept said he was “just studying lah”— which, okay, maybe.
But my brain keep going:
“Studying what?”
“Studying… WHO??” 😭
I caught myself analysing his sentence lengths.
Literally sat there thinking:
“He usually sends at least 3 lines… why is this just 1???”
I didn’t wanna ruin what we had so I never said anything. But I did open a blank Notes doc titled:
“If I’m right about this, I’m never dating again.”
And yes, I made a sad playlist with a bunch of taylor swift and olivia rodriego. Just in case uk.
I fr thought I was going insane.
So I told myself: just look.
Just once.
Just peek.
Worst case, I’d confirm I’m crazy.
Best case? I’d finally get closure and I could drag my sad heart on forward.
Well. What would you know. I didn’t get either.
It wasn’t slides.
It was…a full on betrayal.
This man — this revision rat in disguise —
had somehow turned our topic on demand and supply
into a full-blown interactive explainer using ai.
AND HE WAS KEEPING THAT ALL TO HIMSELF??? 🤬
He never showed it to me.
No “hey wanna try this.”
No “thought this might help.”
I saw:
• A price slider that made the graph move in real time
• Little tappable case studies like “Why bubble tea prices spiked during COVID”
• Clean animations that popped up when you got something right
• And this smug little cartoon cat — “Professor Whiskers” — just sitting there like: “I've got your man now.”
I mean tbh the fonts were nice. The colours were matching. The content was actually kind of slay??
Meanwhile I was sitting there with my sad little paper notes, highlighter dying, page half-torn, looking like I printed my revision off someone’s Tumblr in 2012. I’m leaving this man tn 🥹
Because while he claims I’m the one he “likes”.
Clearly Gemini is the one he’s building a future with.
When I first noticed his change in behavior, it wasn't just about cheating emotionally but also about how technology can create distance even when you're physically together. Using AI-based revision tools like the one he secretly used—complete with interactive sliders and animated case studies—can actually be a game changer for studying. But it felt like he preferred that experience over sharing time with me. I realized that cheating doesn't always mean what TV shows portray. Sometimes, it’s about secrecy and withholding something valuable, even if harmless, which fractures trust. If you suspect changes in communication, watch for subtle cues like shortened messages or avoiding eye contact with screens. Trust your gut but also remember to talk openly. Personally, after my experience, I looked into ways to communicate better and encourage sharing positive study habits as a couple. Even if your partner uses tech tools, invite them to share, try them together, and appreciate each other's styles. That way, you can study smarter AND strengthen your bond. At the end of the day, relationships thrive on transparency—whether it’s about cheating or just hiding cool AI tutorials!
dam! I got baited 😂