Do you complain about your man to your girls?

One thing my mom always told me is never to tell my friends when me and my man are into it. I will die on that hill. If I need some advice, I never share the details. Unless I’m leaving- that’s between us. 🫢

What about y’all? Do you run to your girls when you and your man/partner are into it? 🤔

Why or why not? Let’s 🌮 bout it in the comments.

#GirlTalk #lemon8challenge

2025/10/24 Edited to

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I used to a lot! But nowadays I just keep to myself. If it’s truly something I need to talk about I talk to my therapist for an unbiased opinion.

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Buttercup_

I totally get this. I try to keep relationship issues between me and my partner, but sometimes I’ll vent in a healthy way just to get perspective not to bash him. It’s all about intention.

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