I'm losing all my friends becuz of my bf

I am losing my friends and family, now I think I’m losing my boyfriend too. I’m so tangled up. I love him, he’s had my back more times than I can count. But when I tell him he set off my PTSD or hurt me, he says stuff like “Great, now I can’t sleep ‘cause you’ll spiral” or gets snappy, blaming me. Then I’ll drop it (cry myself to sleep alone), and the next day he’s saying “It’s all my fault. I’m terrible” so I have to comfort him. He even uses lines like “You’re all I have” to me, slowly pushing me to cut off everyone else till I’m totally isolated. Now, he’s all I have left. I’m stuck in the middle of nowhere. Has anyone ever felt trapped like this? I don't know should I be choosing between a messy relationship and total loneliness...

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2025/9/1 Edited to

... Read moreBeing in a toxic relationship is often a deeply confusing and isolating experience. When someone you love repeatedly dismisses your feelings, especially around sensitive issues like PTSD, it can create a dangerous cycle of emotional harm. The phrase "You're all I have" is a common manipulation tactic used to isolate partners from their support networks, which can exacerbate feelings of loneliness and entrapment. It's important to recognize these signs early: when your partner blames you for their emotional state, uses guilt to control your interactions, or creates situations where you feel forced to choose between them and your friends or family, these are red flags. Emotional abuse can wear down self-esteem and make it harder to seek help. If you feel trapped between a messy relationship and loneliness, reaching out to trustworthy friends or professional counselors can be a crucial step. Talking openly about your experiences in safe spaces can provide perspective and emotional relief. Support groups or therapy tailored to trauma and toxic relationships can offer strategies for coping and healing. Remember, genuine relationships do not require you to cut off other meaningful connections. Mutual respect and understanding are essential. Your well-being is paramount, and while love can be complicated, it should never come at the cost of your mental health or isolation from those who care about you.

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Renay bunel

😭😭😭😭omg! I've had the same situation happened to me !

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Jacqueline Lund

Women you have to leave now before he has you like a tiny worm! I have been through the same damn relationship, but even worse!!! He is not a good person and he is bringing your self-esteem to nothing. Take care of you, you need to love yourself, build yourself up, be strong and speak for yourself! Only you have the power of you! Yes it will hurt but keep telling yourself, I am better than this!!🔥🔥🔥

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