Am I weird washing underwear with clothes?

Okay, so my friend’s reaction to my laundry habits really got me thinking after our wild conversation! She made me feel like I was committing a cardinal sin by just tossing everything into one hamper. Like many of you, I've always just thrown all my clothes, including underwear, into the washing machine together. And honestly? I've never had any issues with hygiene or cleanliness. It’s always felt perfectly fine, especially with modern detergents and washing machine cycles. For most everyday laundry, if your items aren't heavily soiled, washing underwear with other clothes is generally considered okay. Modern washing machines, especially if you use a warm or hot water setting (around 40-60°C or 104-140°F), are designed to clean effectively and remove germs. The key is using a good detergent. I've found that for my regular loads, everything comes out fresh and clean. Like the picture shows, sometimes it all just goes into the hamper and then straight into the wash, no separate colors or whites for me! It saves so much time. However, there are definitely times when I think about separating or taking extra steps. If I have heavily soiled underwear, like after a really intense workout or an unexpected stain, I'll usually pre-rinse them under cold water first. For heavily soiled items, a separate, hotter wash might be a good idea, or at least a good pre-soak. It’s all about common sense and what makes you feel comfortable. And about sharing underwear, even after washing? That’s typically a no-go for me. Even if clean, personal items are personal for a reason! What about specific items like period underwear? This is a common question! My routine for period undies is to rinse them thoroughly under cold water immediately to get rid of any visible stains. After that, they usually go into a regular load with other dark items. Some people prefer doing a separate, dedicated wash for them, which is also totally fine if it gives you peace of mind. It really depends on your comfort level and how often you're washing them. And for those delicate pieces – think lacy bras or silk undies – I absolutely use a mesh laundry bag and select a delicate cycle with cold water. I'd never just toss those in with my jeans and towels! Hand washing in the sink is also a fantastic option for these super delicate items or when I'm traveling. It’s surprisingly easy with a little mild soap, a gentle rub, and a good rinse before air-drying. If you're someone who uses professional laundry shops, you might wonder if you can include your inner wear. The answer is yes, absolutely! Laundry services are equipped to handle all types of clothing, including underwear. Just make sure to mention any special care instructions for very delicate items, and they'll take care of it. They're pros at handling different fabric types and stains. Finally, a quick thought on 'holes in underwear.' This isn't usually about what you wash them with, but more about the fabric's age, quality, or sometimes an overly aggressive wash cycle if they're very delicate. It might just be a sign that it’s time to retire them and get some new, comfy ones! Ultimately, finding a laundry routine that works for your lifestyle and ensures your clothes are clean and hygienic is what matters most. So, while my friend might never join my 'all-in-one' laundry club, I've found what works for me. What about you? Any other laundry hacks or absolute no-nos you swear by?