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... Read moreหลายครั้งที่เราตกหลุมรักใครสักคนเพียงเพราะความรู้สึกชั่วคราว แต่ในชีวิตจริง การเลือกคู่ชีวิตหรือคนที่เราอยากใช้เวลาร่วมด้วยนั้นสำคัญมาก เราควรจะเลือกคนที่พร้อมจะเติบโตและรับผิดชอบ ไม่ใช่แค่ใครที่แค่ดูเหมือนว่าจะดีในช่วงเวลาหนึ่งเท่านั้น คำพูดจากภาพ "Choose yourself don't waste your time with a 'boy'" สื่อให้เราเห็นความจริงที่หลายคนไม่กล้าพูดออกมา คือ อย่าเสียเวลารอคอยหรือพยายามเปลี่ยนใครที่ยังไม่โต ไม่ว่าจะด้านความคิด หรือความรับผิดชอบ ซึ่งสิ่งนี้จะทำให้เราต้องเจ็บปวดและเสียโอกาสในการเจอคนที่มีคุณค่าจริงๆ จากประสบการณ์ส่วนตัว ผมเคยเจอคนที่เหมือนจะพร้อม แต่เมื่อเวลาผ่านไป ก็พบว่าคนคนนั้นยังเป็นเด็กที่ไม่เข้าใจความสัมพันธ์จริงจัง จนทำให้ทุกอย่างต้องจบลง ความรักจึงมีทั้งสุขและทุกข์ แต่สิ่งที่สำคัญคือการรักตัวเองและรู้จักตั้งเกณฑ์ในการเลือกคนที่เหมาะสม ดังนั้น อย่าลืมว่าการเลือกตัวเองก่อนเป็นสิ่งที่ดีที่สุด มองหาคนที่พร้อมจะเดินไปกับเรา ไม่ใช่คนที่เป็นภาระหรือปัญหาให้ชีวิตยุ่งเหยิง ให้เวลาที่มีค่าไปกับการสร้างอนาคตที่มีความสุขและมั่นคงดีกว่า

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