I applied for an ESL position that was too good to be true. I packed my bags and moved to Brazil to work at a language school as an English teacher. The students were great and amazing, but unfortunately the boss/owner of the school believed in quantity over quality 🥺. I was repeatedly accused of not wanting to create a friendship/bond with coworkers, bullied, and singled out. This environment disturbed my soul every time I arrived at the school and made me want to kms every time i got home. ❤️🩹
The part of Brazil I lived in is such a small city that everyone knows everyone. Me being an outsider I had no friends in the city and I decided to go out one weekend to make some friends. I met a guy who would change my life for the better and introduced me to the world of skateboarding 🛹💖✨. I started to learn how to skate at 25 years old and seriously, it’s never too late to start.
I started going to the skate park everyday practicing how to push around and meeting other skaters. The skaters there are so kind, nice, and supportive. The more I went the more I learned and I created a true bond with the other skaters. I started to get into skateboarding so much that I was at the park twice a day and I started taking skateboarding lessons. ☺️⚡️
Skateboarding is a release of mental stress 💆🏽♀️. When I skateboard it feels like my brain flies out of my head. A rush of endorphins has me in such a positive mood that it feels i’m skating in another planet. Skateboarding also helps with facing fears, trying something new, and improving your skills/abilities. When going down ramps and learning new tricks I was so scared to fall that I never put in 100% effort. It was only after I fell I gained confidence. Falling off my board is important to me because it helped me understand the impact and it wasn’t that bad. Falling gave me the confidence to try again. Other skaters also helped with improving my skills and they were super empathetic and i had many nights with deep talks that made me feel like I wasn’t alone 🥹. The one thing that I love about skateboarding is that we’re all from different walks of life, but we have one thing in common which is skateboarding 🛹❤️.
Please pick up a board and give this sport a chance.
Thank you skateboarding and everyone who was there when I needed you during my darkest moments 💖
2024/12/30 Edited to
... Read moreBuilding on my own experience, I've come to realize that skateboarding offers a unique blend of physical activity, mental challenge, and social connection that can profoundly impact one's mental well-being. It's more than just a hobby; for many, it becomes a vital coping mechanism and a path to self-discovery.
One of the most immediate benefits I felt was the incredible stress relief. When you're focused on balancing, pushing, and maneuvering, your mind has little room for worries or anxious thoughts. It forces you into a state of present moment awareness, almost like a moving meditation. The rush of endorphins is undeniable, leaving you with a sense of euphoria and clarity that can combat feelings of sadness or overwhelm. It truly feels like your brain gets a much-needed reset, clearing out the mental clutter.
Skateboarding also taught me invaluable lessons about resilience. Every fall is an opportunity to learn, to adjust, and to try again. This process, though initially intimidating, builds immense mental fortitude. Facing the fear of falling, pushing past discomfort, and eventually landing a new trick translates directly into a greater capacity to handle life's challenges off the board. It's a constant reminder that setbacks aren't failures, but stepping stones to progress. I remember my local skatepark became a sanctuary, a place where I could both physically and mentally release tension.
Beyond the individual benefits, the community aspect of skateboarding is incredibly powerful for mental health. As someone who felt isolated, finding this welcoming group of diverse individuals, all united by a shared passion, was transformative. There's an inherent support system among skaters; experienced riders are often eager to help beginners, offering tips, encouragement, and a safe space to practice. These connections combat loneliness and foster a sense of belonging, which are crucial for psychological well-being. Deep conversations late into the night at the skatepark became a lifeline, reminding me I wasn't alone in my struggles.
If my story resonates with you, I truly encourage you to give skateboarding a try. Don't let age or perceived skill level deter you – it's never too late to start. You don't need to be an expert to reap the mental benefits. Begin by simply pushing around, getting comfortable on the board, and exploring a local skatepark. Investing in basic protective gear like a helmet and pads is a smart first step. Remember, the goal isn't perfection, but progress and enjoyment. Celebrate every small victory, whether it's rolling confidently or just getting over that initial fear. This journey isn't just about learning tricks; it's about building confidence, finding your tribe, and discovering a profound sense of freedom that can truly save your mental health.