Let them 🤍
Don't make the mistake of being so understanding and forgiving that you overlook the fact that you're being repeatedly disrespected.
Let them be upset.
Let them judge you.
Let them misunderstand you.
Let them gossip about you,
Let them ignore you.
Let them be "right."
Let them doubt you.
Let them not like you.
Let them not speak to you.
Let them run your name in the ground.
Let them make you out to be the villain.
Whatever it is that people want to say about you, let them!
Kindly step aside and LET THEM.
The hard truth is they know how much they are hurting you. And they just simply don't care. They did it knowing it could cause them to lose you. And they did it anyway. People that love you care about how they make you feel. The end. Let them go.
There will be people that would rather lose you than be honest about what they've done to you. Let them go.
The lack of respect was the closure. The lack of apology was the closure. The lack of care was the closure. The lack of acountability was the closure. The lack of honestly was the closure. Let them go.
Make the decision to no longer sit at tables where you might be the topic when you get up. Let them go.
You can still be kind. You can even still love them deeply. But do it from the distance they created in their words and actions. Access to you is a privilege they have proven they can’t be trusted with. Let them go.
You don’t need to tell your side of the story. God already knows. Let God fight the battle for you. Let them go.
It’s taken me a long time to get here. Sleepless nights, countless tears, managing a range of emotions filled with anger, disappointment, confusion and deep hurt. Lots of self reflection, self preservation, deep prayer and seeking wisdom from those much wiser than me.
If you are struggling with this please know you are not alone. We will never understand why hurt people hurt people. But we can do the hard work to grow ourselves. Because healed people do in fact heal people.
Don’t you dare let them steal your joy.
Don’t you dare let them steal your light.
Don’t you dare let them steal your peace.
You are in control of that.
Hold tight to what you can control and release your grip on what you can’t control.
Let them go.
In life, we often face moments when others hurt us, sometimes intentionally. It’s crucial to understand that our mental and emotional wellbeing should always take precedence. The act of letting go, especially when people repeatedly disrespect you, is a pivotal step towards self-preservation. Understanding that these individuals may not acknowledge their actions empowers you to make the decision for yourself. It’s about setting boundaries and valuing your self-worth. Remember, walking away from toxic relationships can be a form of self-love. By releasing those who bring negativity, you create space for healthier connections that uplift and support you. Surround yourself with encouraging individuals who appreciate your authenticity and respect your boundaries. This journey can be difficult; however, self-reflection and personal growth often flourish through these challenging experiences. Engage in activities that foster joy and light in your life. Nurture relationships that inspire you, and remember that healing often comes from within. Seek wisdom and guidance, whether through personal reflection or conversations with trusted friends. Ultimately, letting them go is not just an act of distancing yourself from negativity, but an invitation to embrace your true self, full of light and joy. Take control of your narrative; don't let others shape it for you.
