Don’t mourn ppl selectively yall it’s gross

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... Read moreI've noticed a lot of people tend to mourn tragedies or deaths selectively, especially when it involves international events or controversial figures. It feels disheartening because it creates a sort of empathy hierarchy where some lives matter more than others, depending on political or geographic context. From my own experience, acknowledging that violence committed by any group, including powerful military forces, causes real human suffering is crucial. When people excuse or ignore atrocities committed by 'their own side' while condemning others, it perpetuates division and undermines genuine justice. In discussions I've had with friends and online communities, it’s clear many struggle with reconciling feelings about complex political situations. However, it's possible—and necessary—to condemn celebrating violence, regardless of who it comes from, without losing nuance about historical and ongoing injustices. Personally, I try to remain consistent by opposing all forms of state terrorism and violence, whether it's from famous dictators, terrorist organizations, or countries with military power. This approach has led me to deeper conversations about the true cost of war and the importance of empathy that crosses borders. In essence, let’s move beyond selective empathy. Treat each loss of life with equal respect. Doing so could help foster peace-oriented dialogue and reduce the polarization around conflict narratives. Mourning should never be a tool for political convenience; it should be a genuine expression of shared humanity.

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