To reiterate if you think that that is what works best in your relationship do that or even if you think in a society of patriarchy where some of these norms can’t be escaped men should be held to them as well, cool. But stating them as essential or required or justified, is not feminism it is harmful #greenscreenvideo

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... Read moreIn reflecting on the intersection of feminism and traditional roles, I've noticed how often biology is used to justify rigid expectations in relationships, especially around pregnancy and financial obligations. For example, some argue that because women bear children, men must compensate financially, positioning this as a feminist or progressive stance. However, this perspective risks reinforcing outdated, patriarchal norms rather than dismantling them. During my own experience navigating relationship dynamics, I learned that focusing exclusively on biology as the foundation for roles can limit both partners’ potential and perpetuate inequality. Instead, the emphasis should be on mutual respect, shared responsibilities tailored to individual circumstances, and questioning the societal structures that uphold these norms. Labeling traditional duties as feminist achievements seems to mask the underlying systemic issues. True feminism should challenge these as social constructs rather than natural laws. It encourages men and women to renegotiate roles without feeling confined by biology or stereotypical expectations. Aside from relationship dynamics, it’s important to recognize broader socioeconomic factors influencing these roles. Pregnancy, for instance, may affect income and career progression, but rather than compensating individual men or women based solely on biology, society should work toward systemic change—such as better parental leave policies and workplace support—that benefits all individuals. Ultimately, feminism that accepts or rebrands traditional patriarchal values risks stagnation. It’s healthier to critique and evolve these norms collectively, rather than accepting rigid frameworks as inevitable. By doing so, both men and women can find more equitable and fulfilling roles in their relationships and society.