i was a little nervy to be honest

i have not had light hair in FIVE years and lemme tell you , i missed it !! between kids and just life in general finding time and funds to maintain my light hair was impossible!!! I finally decided it was time to have a little “mommy make over”!

i got use to my dark brown hair and was terrified i would hate my hair if i changed it after so long!!

- i wanted to gradually to just dip my toes back into blonde so my hairdresser (who just so happens to be my bestfriend) decided a balayage was best!!

- she did more warm tones to avoid a brass color since my hair was so dark!

- we of course had to pop in some money pieces

questions for you besties, what’s your favorite color friendly shampoo + condition?? how do i keep my hair healthy while bleaching??

xoxo 🫶🏼

2024/7/27 Edited to

... Read moreHey besties! I totally get those questions you asked – keeping new balayage hair healthy and vibrant after going lighter is a whole new ballgame, especially after years of dark hair. I've been there, and trust me, protecting those gorgeous blonde pieces and warm undertones is key! First off, let's talk about keeping your hair healthy after bleaching. Bleaching, while giving us those beautiful light locks, can be tough on your strands. My number one tip is deep conditioning, often! I aim for a nourishing hair mask at least once a week. Look for masks with ingredients like argan oil, keratin, or shea butter. These help to replenish moisture and strengthen the hair shaft, which is crucial for preventing breakage and keeping your balayage looking fresh. I also swear by a good leave-in conditioner after every wash – it acts as a shield against environmental damage and helps detangle without stressing your hair. Another huge game-changer for me has been minimizing heat styling. I try to air dry my hair whenever possible, especially those delicate money pieces around my face. When I do use heat, a high-quality heat protectant spray is non-negotiable! It creates a barrier that reduces damage from blow dryers, straighteners, and curling irons. Also, consider switching to a silk pillowcase. It sounds fancy, but it reduces friction on your hair overnight, which can prevent frizz and breakage, helping to preserve your beautiful balayage hair. Now, onto those color-friendly shampoo and conditioner recommendations – this is where the real magic happens for maintaining your color and health! My absolute must-have is a sulfate-free shampoo and conditioner. Sulfates can strip your hair of its natural oils and, more importantly, your salon-fresh color, leading to quicker fading. Look for labels that explicitly say "sulfate-free" or "color-safe." Since you mentioned warm tones, keeping brassiness at bay is probably on your mind, too! For those gorgeous blonde pieces and to maintain those warm undertones without them turning yellow or orange, a purple shampoo used once every 1-2 weeks can be a lifesaver. Purple pigments neutralize yellow tones, keeping your blonde looking cool and bright. Just don't overdo it, or you might end up with a lavender tint! I usually leave it on for just a few minutes. I’ve personally had great results with a few favorite brands' Color Protect lines for everyday use and their Purple Shampoos for my toning needs. It's all about finding what works best for your hair type, but always start with sulfate-free and moisturizing options. Remember, your hair needs extra love after a big change like a balayage, so investing in good products and a consistent routine will make all the difference. You've got this, and those new light locks are definitely worth the extra care!

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