A reminder to cherish yourself.

Author’s Thoughts:

- Essence is something you feel, it has a presence even though it’s not seen

- To appreciate is to increase in value, but also to value all the little details

- If someone doesn’t grow you, or admire you, they are devaluing you

#authenticity #selflove #selfwork #innergrowth #selfworth

2025/4/13 Edited to

... Read moreIn a world where external validation often overshadows internal worth, it's vital to remind ourselves of the importance of self-love and authentic appreciation. The quote from Kubrat Salaam, 'Don't give away your essence to someone who doesn't appreciate its presence,' serves as a guiding principle for nurturing our self-worth. Engaging in self-work is essential; it provides the foundation for inner growth and helps us recognize when our essence is valued or devalued by those around us. When we cherish ourselves, we attract healthier relationships that contribute positively to our well-being. Self-worth is more than just a buzzword; it's a transformative journey that involves reinforcing our inner dialogues and making conscious choices that reflect our true values. Taking time for self-reflection, setting boundaries, and surrounding ourselves with supportive individuals can significantly enhance our self-appreciation. Embrace the little details that contribute to your essence—your talents, interests, and thoughts—and remind yourself that you are worthy of admiration and love, both from within and from those you choose to share your life with.

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