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Don't judge your own life through other people's eyes or social currents.

"I'm sorry. If you're a good person, you'll regret it."

On the day that life seemed to come to a dead end, the work that had been hoped for was unfulfilled, the love that had been hatched collapsed, the return to the shelter with a traumatized heart, so it was accompanied by a heavy question in the chest, a question distilled by the deep fear that we were disappointing the best loved ones. ❓

Eventually, the question came out of the mouth: "Mom and Dad are sorry that I graduated and didn't have a job and did well." It was a question that one child used to ask for confirmation that in the eyes of our parents, our values were extant on the day that the ruler of society saw us as a failure. ‼️

But then the answer came back suddenly without wasting time thinking, and it was an utterly comforting nectar when my parents said, "I'm sorry, I'm sorry, but if you're a bad person, you're sorry, you're sorry, you're sorry, you're sorry, you're sorry, and your parents are just trying to survive it enough, and you can raise your stomach." ✨👍🏻🤍🥰

This simple, powerful sentence removes the bonds of expectation that depress the shoulders of the child, because it confirms that the "home" is not a field of play that is rated according to our job title, but an area that unconditionally accepts our identity as humans.

This article therefore wants to represent an echo to the hearts of many parents who sometimes use social success as a norm to pressure their children to forget that the real goal of living is to survive honestly and be happy.

Your graduation has not succeeded in his job, which does not mean that he is worthless as long as he maintains his "goodness," because in a world full of judgment and comparison, your ability to save yourself from immorality and support your stomach with your own shin is the most proud achievement in the eyes of parents who truly understand the world. ✨🤍

For all children who are going through the storm of life to feel that they are so low-key, let this be encouraging to know that your value is not diminishing just because of the social conditions you face.

Don't judge yourself in the eyes of others who look superficially, because in the eyes of those who love you the most, you still have breath, survival intelligence, and the same person who knows good conscience, that's enough to make them proud of you without waiting for a big position to be a guarantee. 🥰✌🏻

✍🏻 arbitrary writer. ✍🏻

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