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10. Do you check yourself that we are Toxic?🗣️💭❗️

👋🏻👋🏻 Hi Hi nakaa, friends, Lemon brothers, everyone 🍋, have you ever met a Toxic? How do you deal with people like that? Have you ever noticed your habits that we are Toxic? If you don't know, let's check it out. 🫶🏻

✅ 10 Checklists about whether we're Toxic?

1. Interrupt others often

2. Do not listen to comments

3. Always blame others

4. Do not keep the promise

5. Sarcastic speech

6. Do not respect other people's time.

7. Uncontrollable emotions

8. Do not admit mistakes

9. Beyond personal lines

10. Do not say sorry when should apologize

Some 🌷 may be unconscious, but to solve this habit is to accept and improve ourselves for the good of us in the future. 💕

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# Grow up and know that # toxic # Be a better person # Develop yourself # Toxic people

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... Read moreการเข้าใจว่าตัวเองเป็นคน Toxic หรือไม่ ถือเป็นก้าวแรกสำคัญสำหรับการพัฒนาตัวเองและสร้างความสัมพันธ์ที่ดีกับคนรอบข้าง ในชีวิตจริงบางครั้งเราก็อาจเผลอแสดงพฤติกรรมที่เป็นลบโดยไม่รู้ตัว เช่น ขัดจังหวะคนอื่นบ่อยๆ หรือไม่ฟังความคิดเห็นที่แตกต่าง การสังเกตพฤติกรรมเหล่านี้ช่วยให้เราได้รู้ตัวและมีโอกาสปรับปรุง จากประสบการณ์ส่วนตัว การรู้จักชีวิตเชิงบวกและการฝึกฝนการใส่ใจคนอื่นมากขึ้น ทำให้ความสัมพันธ์ในที่ทำงานและกับเพื่อนดีขึ้นอย่างเห็นได้ชัด เช่น การตั้งใจฟังแทนการขัดจังหวะ หรือการควบคุมอารมณ์เมื่อเกิดความขัดแย้ง การยอมรับความผิดพลาดและขอโทษอย่างจริงใจเป็นอีกหนึ่งทักษะที่ช่วยแก้ไขบรรยากาศตึงเครียด นอกจากนี้การตั้งเป้าหมายเพื่อพัฒนาตัวเองอย่างสม่ำเสมอ เช่น เข้าคอร์สเรียนทักษะการสื่อสาร หรือการอ่านหนังสือเพื่อเสริมสร้างความเข้าใจในความสัมพันธ์ มักช่วยให้พฤติกรรม Toxic ลดลงอย่างเห็นได้ชัด และยังส่งผลดีต่อสุขภาพจิตของตัวเองและคนรอบข้าง สุดท้าย การยอมรับและใส่ใจการเปลี่ยนแปลงตัวเองอย่างต่อเนื่องเป็นสิ่งสำคัญ เพราะไม่มีใครสมบูรณ์แบบ การเรียนรู้จากประสบการณ์และปัญหาที่ผ่านเข้ามาจะทำให้เราก้าวหน้ามากขึ้น และกลายเป็นคนที่ดีขึ้นในสายตาตัวเองและคนอื่นๆ ได้อย่างแท้จริง

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