33. Single. No kids. What’s wrong with that??
I was raised to grow up get married have kids live life.
I haven’t reached those stages yet. 🤷🏾♀️
I have not dated anyone husband-like. These men put on elaborate hoaxes to fool you into believing their intentions are good, they’re faithful, they’re providers, etc. I have not fell for it. Simply.
I want to be a wife and then have kids. I do not want to be anyone’s bm. That’s not for me. I have never been pregnant. I go extended periods of time without intercourse and when I date it’s just that - dates.
Scientifically, we have to do it to get pregnant. Personally, there has to be some commitment to do it. Honestly, these folks be turning me off.
When I see single moms who are unhappy, and even families breaking apart due to divorce I feel sad. I do not want that. I need a strong connection and fulfillment for me to want kids with someone. It’s scary out there. I’m always going to protect myself and my future family. Avoidance is working.
The issue is, I’m being questioned and side eyed for sticking to my beliefs. Yal see he’s flabbergasted 😲 and he thinks I’m a “strong feminist” 🥴.
I’m very submissive and traditional when I am in a relationship. A complete southern belle. I believe in gender roles. How does not being knocked up lead someone to those conclusions about me?
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