Does someone wanna tell me what I’m doing wrong?☺️

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What does freedom look like in a relationship??..
We never yelled. We never argued. But the silence between us started to sound like two people misunderstanding love in real time. He thought freedom meant not being asked where he was. I thought freedom meant feeling emotionally safe. I didn’t want to control him, I just wanted to feel consider
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Should I tell him???
So I like this boy and we’ve texting since may 8 and it’s now June and I’m starting to loose feelings for him. We talk everyday, he asks me how my day is, says goodmorning and goodnight the simple things right. Okay well he’s stoped texting first a lot and I started texting first more he still does
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Does anyone know whats wrong with my ear??? Help😭
I have 2 new lobe piercings (one in each ear) then 1 conch. My conch has been a rouuughhhhh road and bleeds alot. My lobe piercings randomly got like infected and swollen so i took the piercings out and then a crust started forming and now they ooze and are crusty and itchy and kinda hurt and like
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