Pregnant at 20 | The first trimester
Disclaimer: we did not plan to have a child but always said if it happened we will show up as parents in every way we can and will welcome baby with loving arms and hearts
Of course we faced parental disappointment (more so from my parents than from my MIL) but we expected that, we prepared to be accountable and to bear the consequences of our actions! And we’re excited to welcome baby into the world!! 🫶🏻
While I didn’t have morning sickness, I had general nausea after meals or heart palpitations while walking. Water and a small bottle of peppermint oil was a life saver for me with all the new smells and sensations.
Take your time to rest and listen to your body, I was still working F&B in the first 2 months, before switching to freelance clothing live streaming for another 2 months because I was insistent on making some extra money even while hubby was working. However I really felt the toll on my body especially the first trimester, I was extremely exhausted and was taking naps every day, I had to listen to my body as I couldn’t function without my naps. Take your time if you can.
The whole first trimester didn’t feel real HAHAHHA until the ultrasound but I couldn’t believe a baby was really inside me.
If you’re a young mom reading this or young and preggy like me, take your time, there is so many different opinions out there but make sure that you’re patient with yourself, I had a hard time accepting that I couldn’t work the same way I used to and that my ability was changing but have grace and kindness for yourself!
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Being pregnant at a young age, such as 20, often comes with a unique set of emotional and physical challenges. One of the most surprising aspects during the first trimester is how surreal it can feel until confirmed by an ultrasound, especially when symptoms vary greatly among women. For instance, many expect morning sickness, but others, like myself, experience general nausea only after meals, along with occasional heart palpitations, which can be unsettling but manageable with small remedies like peppermint oil and staying hydrated. Balancing pregnancy with daily responsibilities adds another layer of complexity. I continued working in food and beverage for the first two months and then shifted to freelance live streaming to maintain financial contribution while accommodating new physical limits. Listening to your body is vital, especially during the first trimester when fatigue can be overwhelming. Daily naps and rest periods are not a luxury but a necessity. It’s important to accept these changes in your capabilities with kindness and patience, rather than pressuring yourself to perform as before. Young moms often face external pressures, including mixed reactions from family and friends. Preparing mentally to handle disappointment or differing opinions can ease stress. Remember, preparing to be a parent is also about preparing yourself emotionally. Forgiving yourself and setting realistic expectations can make the journey smoother and more fulfilling. If you’re navigating early pregnancy at a young age, take pride in your journey and embrace the support you seek. Share your experiences with other young mothers through supportive communities to feel less alone and more empowered. Every pregnancy experience is unique, and finding what helps you cope and thrive is key. The first trimester is just the beginning of an incredible journey toward motherhood, filled with growth, learning, and love.
Congrats! You are so brave and you sound really resourceful too, have fun being a mummy! - Sweetheart the clown