How Would You Choose To Invest?
I usually prefer to invest my money in smaller or meaningful things — for example, if I could get two mugs for $14, that would feel like a good deal to me. I’m exploring individual mugs that I genuinely like, but it’s hard for me to look at double-digit prices without comparing what else I could get for the same amount.
It’s not that I’m cheap — it’s that small things make me happy. If I’m going to spend more on something like a mug, I’d rather buy it from a small or family-owned business. That kind of purchase feels sentimental, like it carries a story and a sense of intention. When something comes from a large corporation, it loses that personal value for me.
I grew up in a big family that didn’t have means of support let alone for each-other , and between ages 17 to 21, I had no stable housing no place no home. Navigating finances after that made me much more thoughtful about how I spend. I’ve seen how easily people can get caught up in wanting a lifestyle especially coming from the environments I lived in they have this admiration — the penthouse overlooking the city, the $50,000 couch, the “dream” kitchen. But for me, those things don’t hold real meaning.
When I finally got my own place, it came during a difficult time in life. Having that space gave me a chance to process, grow, and learn about myself. Even though it has its challenges, I’ve realized that I don’t attach value to expensive or trendy things.
Some people can walk into an upscale furniture store, talk about what they like, and spend money without hesitation. But that’s not me — no matter how stable my finances become. I want the things I own to have sentimental value, not just aesthetic appeal.
Sure, I appreciate beautiful items and love seeing them on lemon8, but I don’t invest in something unless it has purpose or longevity. I’m thankful I cut social media out other then lemon 8 three years ago, because it helped me stay grounded and focus on what truly matters to me.💕
I’m curious to hear your thoughts and maybe if someone is navigating finances it may help! A girl can only want that. Best intentions of course much love🥰
Investing money thoughtfully often means more than just the dollar amount—it’s about how those dollars reflect your values and priorities. When thinking about how to invest or spend $21.95, consider categorizing your spending into needs, wants, and savings. Needs could include essentials like groceries or bills; wants could be small indulgences that bring joy, such as a special mug; while savings build financial security for future goals. A lot of people find value in purchasing items with emotional or personal significance. For example, choosing a mug made by a small or family-owned business connects you to a story, supporting local artisans rather than mass-produced goods. This kind of investment creates more lasting satisfaction than an expensive but impersonal item. Many struggle with the allure of luxury goods—a penthouse view or a $50,000 couch—especially when social comparison or lifestyle admiration comes into play. But true contentment often arises from owning items with purpose or longevity. Splitting $21.95 thoughtfully might look like allocating a portion for a small meaningful purchase, a part for savings, and some towards a practical need or experience. It's important to rate your priorities honestly on a scale to ensure your spending aligns with what truly matters. While some might happily buy an upscale product without hesitation, others might find more joy in simplicity and sentimentality. Reflecting on your financial history and personal values can guide these decisions. Lastly, minimizing social media influences (except platforms that inspire positivity, like Lemon8) can help maintain clear financial goals and avoid unnecessary pressures. Investing isn’t only about returns but also about enriching your life in ways that resonate with your authentic self.
The mug is cute but $21.95? I'd rather get a cute reusable bag from Starbucks lol.