One then it just hits…

Here’s the thing

3 years ago I decided to declutter my life and work on regulating my nervous system.

I realized I was living way too fast and I BURNED OUT 😭

I couldn’t keep up anymore. It was chaotic.

Then, one day it just hit me after watching a video (like this one) TOO MUCH STUFF IS OVERSTIMULATING.

I had always been “minimal” with my personal stuff, but there was A LOT for the kids, and tons of stuff from my husband (mostly military stuff).

So, I started decluttering kitchen, kids stuff, organizing etc.

I quickly realized I couldn’t just get rid of stuff. I needed to be INTENTIONAL about it.

We then knew I may had to leave my job when I got pregnant with my 3rd because of daycare costs (crazy to think) so we got even MORE intentional.

We got the mindset of “we will downsize our life, in order to upgrade later”

As we decluttered, we noticed we were saving more money, and spending it even more intentionally 🙌🏻

It does suck at times. But we’re in a season where we buy only what truly need

We’re focused on paying off debt

& most importantly, creating a peaceful home ESPECIALLY during the busy early years of parenthood.

I don’t want to be constantly feeling overwhelmed, stressed out, and burnt out, so I know this is my own way of self care

Would we want the dream aesthetically pleasing home? ABSOLUTELY, but we know it takes time ❤️

So, if this is you, get my decluttering and simplifying guide to get you started 🤍 and start living more intentionally

Share this with a friend who may need to see it 🤍

#declutteryourlife #intentionalhome #moneysaving #intentionalliving #simplehome #nonaestheticmom #slowliving #burnoutrecovery #declutteryourhome #clutterfree

2024/5/11 Edited to

... Read moreIn today's fast-paced world, many individuals find themselves overwhelmed by the clutter in their lives, both emotionally and physically. This insightful journey into minimalism highlights the importance of being intentional with possessions, especially for families. Realizing that possessions can lead to overstimulation, many have started to embrace a simpler lifestyle. Minimalism isn’t just about reducing the number of items you own; it’s also about cultivating a mindset focused on quality over quantity. Families are encouraged to start decluttering, and as they let go of unnecessary items, they often find themselves not only saving money but also fostering deeper connections with what truly matters: their loved ones. The challenge is to focus on what brings joy and functionality to life while discarding the excess. Through this transformation, many have discovered the value in prioritizing experiences and relationships instead of accumulating more stuff. The journey of minimalism leads to a peaceful home environment, particularly beneficial during the busy and chaotic early years of parenthood. If you're feeling overwhelmed by clutter, consider starting with small steps. Establish a decluttering plan that includes sorting items according to necessity, joy, and functionality. Remember, it's about creating a lifestyle that feels good and meets your needs rather than adhering to traditional norms of consumerism. Embrace this shift and invite a greater sense of peace into your living space.

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