When attending a wedding, many guests wonder how much they should contribute financially, particularly if the wedding is held at an expensive venue. From personal experience and discussions with friends, the general approach is that guests typically give an "ang pao" (monetary gift) that roughly covers the cost of their meal and a bit extra as a congratulatory gesture. However, when the couple selects a lavish hotel or high-end restaurant where meal prices per table can reach around $800 or more, questions about whether guests should pay such a high amount arise. I recall attending weddings in Singapore where prices at top venues were quite steep. Most guests aimed to match or slightly exceed the per-person cost, balancing the desire to support the couple and practicality. Some viewed the wedding as a once-in-a-lifetime event deserving generosity, while others felt it was unreasonable to expect such a costly gift. The key takeaway from observing these scenarios is that expectations should be clear and considerate on both sides. Couples who choose pricier venues may communicate openly if they expect guests to cover higher costs, but it's also common for couples to absorb some expenses themselves. Moreover, cultural norms and individual relationships play huge roles. Close family and friends might contribute more willingly, while distant acquaintances may feel comfortable giving less. Ultimately, attending a wedding is about celebrating love and connection. While monetary gifts help offset costs, they are also symbols of goodwill and support. Striking a balance between generosity and affordability ensures a positive experience for everyone involved.