I just ate a hot dog in the Costco parking lot…

I got to Costco early (around 10am, before the chaos), did my shopping, grabbed a hot dog, and sat in my car to eat it before driving off. This guy immediately pulled up behind me, clearly waiting for my spot, and started waving for me to move. I gestured that I’d just be a few minutes, but he kept honking and glaring like I’d committed a crime.

It’s not like I was camping out, just trying to eat in peace before heading home. My friends say I was rude for not moving sooner.

Am I being rude for finishing my hot dog first? What do you think?

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2025/11/10 Edited to

... Read moreParking lot etiquette often sparks debate, especially in busy locations such as Costco. Here, people aim to shop quickly and move on, which means parking spots are in high demand. When someone parks and decides to eat in their car, it can sometimes cause impatience or frustration from others waiting for that space. The OCR text "enjoying a snack makes me public enemy" humorously captures this common tension: the simple act of enjoying a snack, like a hot dog, can inadvertently trigger negativity from others focused on efficiency and quick turnover. But is it really rude to take a few minutes to eat in your own car before moving? From a social perspective, patience and understanding are key. Most would agree it’s reasonable to finish eating peacefully, especially if the wait isn’t prolonged. Signaling clearly, like gesturing the message "just a few minutes," helps convey that the space isn’t being unnecessarily held. Meanwhile, those waiting should consider that everyone values their small moments of comfort, especially after shopping. In real-life experiences, many people prioritize convenience and respect in parking lots. Communicating politely and demonstrating awareness of others’ needs helps reduce conflict. If parking lots become battlegrounds over spots and small pauses, the overall shopping experience can feel more stressful. Therefore, it’s worth weighing the short wait against the desire to eat comfortably. A few minutes to enjoy a hot dog isn’t inherently rude, especially if the waiting driver shows patience. At the end of the day, balancing personal comfort with the communal flow of busy spots makes sense and fosters kindness amid the daily hustle.

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Ashley Velardi

Nah, he can find another spot😉😅 who doesn’t sit in their car for a little bit before driving off?

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Fluffiekitty

I’m petty. I would have gotten back out of my car and walked back in to Costco. Find another damn space to park in.

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