Having a crush can be incredibly intense, especially in WLW (women loving women) relationships where emotional dynamics can feel heightened due to shared experiences and understanding. I’ve often found myself so attached to a crush that I had to constantly remind myself we're not even dating yet. This experience is quite common and can lead to a mix of excitement and anxiety. From personal experience, one way to manage these feelings is by acknowledging the attachment while setting gentle emotional boundaries. It helps to remind yourself of the current status—like the phrase from the image, “so attached I have to keep reminding myself that we’re not even dating.” This acts as a grounding thought to avoid rushing into assumptions or expectations prematurely. Engaging openly with friends or communities that share these experiences, such as the #wlw or #lesbian spaces, can provide comfort and perspective. These communities offer relatable stories and coping strategies that can validate your feelings while encouraging emotional balance. Additionally, focusing on personal growth and hobbies can redirect energy positively, reducing the intensity of attachment. Balancing your emotional investment with self-care ensures you maintain a healthy mindset whether or not the crush progresses to a relationship. In all, it’s important to cherish the feelings but remain mindful of your emotional health. This balanced approach makes the journey of crushes in WLW relationships a rewarding part of personal and relational growth.