Single mother's monologue💗
Good morning everyone ✨
Thank you very much for always supporting us ✨🙇✨
Recently, the sun is going down faster and I feel like I can hear the footsteps of autumn. How are you all doing?
Before I got married, my ex-husband was drinking and talking about his dreams, so I got married to support him.
However, on Saturdays and Sundays, I rumble around at home, throw away the meals I made, leave housework and childcare to me, and always grumpy without greeting in the morning...I was made to feel a lot of unpleasant feelings.
Even if I said hello in the morning, I was told that I was tired, and even if I said that I did not leave rice, I spit out a line like a kindergarten child because I did not like it, and my stress was rising.
Furthermore, since my income was low, I did housework and childcare almost by one operation while working part-time.
When I told my mother and sister that I wanted a divorce, they sympathized with me and said that it would be nice to do it someday.
I was married for 16 years.
At that time, an investment scammer calling himself Yasuyuki Higashino encouraged me, so I passed the audition for a song and tried to divorce him.
When I reported it to my family, my real father, Hitoshi Kubota, said to me, who was mentally tormented by my ex-husband, "What can I do for a 47-year-old 💢 If you 💢 divorce, you should leave the house." Many words came to mind, such as disrespect for women, human rights violations, morahara, DV, adult children, dream killers, energy vampires, etc.
I was frustrated and cried a lot.
Because no matter what I say, I can't get through.
My real mother told me to return the money if I was going to divorce, and my parents took away 1 million yen that I had saved in my name that I made without my permission.
My younger sister made a fool of me, saying, "Hey, I'm singing for the children!!"
My family was desperate as an enemy.
So it took time to file for divorce.
There was no one to protect me.
Even when I asked Shin Mama to sign it, I felt that she considered the divorce papers too sacred, saying that it would be better to have parents write such things.
I wanted to start SNS after changing my last name, so the start was later than planned, but now I have a lot of followers and some people are on my side, so I can spend my heart calmly It became.
I am always encouraged by your support and warm words.
If I can become a world-famous entertainer, I will use my experience to communicate what DV and power harassment are.
I hope it will be a salvation for those who are suffering from abusive language and violence even a little.
If you don't mind, I am very pleased that you will continue to support me in the future.
Nice to meet you.
September 17, 2025 YUUKI.
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シングルマザーとしての孤独や不安は、多くの方が経験する深い悩みだと思います。私自身も離婚後、家族からの無理解や精神的な苦しみに直面し、孤独を感じながらも子どもたちのために前を向いてきました。 特に離婚を決断した際には、離婚届け一枚に人生が左右されるような重圧を実感し、『簡単に離婚できる世の中になってほしい』という切実な思いを抱きました。元夫や実家の家族から受けた言葉は心の傷となりましたが、それでも私は自分の幸せと自由を求める道を選びました。 また 、SNSを始めてからは同じ境遇の方々と繋がり、孤独感が和らぎました。フォロワーさんとの交流や励ましが私の支えとなり、心の安定にもつながっていきました。自分の経験を通じて、似たような辛さを抱える方々に少しでも力になれればと思っています。 もし元夫が亡くなった場合の手続きや心構えについても、経験者としての知恵を共有したいと思います。子どもの将来や経済面での不安が多い中、一歩ずつ現実と向き合うことが大切です。 孤独や辛さを感じたときこそ、一人で抱え込まずに周囲やネット上のコミュニティに助けを求めることをおすすめします。私自身、多くの方からの温かい言葉に救われました。これからも、シングルマザーの皆さまが明るく前向きに生きられるよう、経験や情報を発信してまいります。
