my family doesn’t celebrate every holiday anymore🥲

When I was younger my family would always celebrate or get together for every holiday in the year.

We would have fun together and my parents would make it fun…but now we only celebrate Christmas if everyone is in town.

Which I think that just may be the #adult life…when the kids get older nothing is as fun…

But is this the normal for every family now?? What do you celebrate or get together for?

#cozychats #lemon8partner #lemon8challenge #familytime

2025/12/22 Edited to

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