Dieties

hekate is the first the second set of dimns to me, including obes,abjanitor, atropos,laxesis, klithos and there are 54 I don't know of the second set of 60 dimns that Dwell Below

why do they have to be geared towards women? aren't we all part of the same spiritual makeups? shouldn't men be able to benefit from them as much as women when it concerns the feminine energy within them? this is just a curiosity. I am no expert and just trying to learn more. I work with Hekate and would like to work with Lilith but because I'm not of the female gender I've been told I'd be wasting my time and effort. possibly even angering one or both of these mothers.