4C Hair can be a love hate relationship

My hair journey has been quite the journey. I am glad that I have come far enough to get the hair I’ve always wanted. When I was a little girl, I had little braids that was picked out into an Afro and my mom would always put a Barrett on top and as I got older, I had my hair relaxed and it was long for a while but it started to break off. I’ve had it relaxed and straightened for a long time. I’ve had curls in once and extensions. Later down the road, I transitioned back to my natural hair. It was a bit of roller coaster and a lot of trial/ errors. My hair was going through awkward stages and then I finally got it cut off. I shampooed my hair all the time and I didn’t use conditioner very much. It wasn’t helping; but I kept doing my research and more trials. Finally! I came to a point where my hair was happy and healthy.

What made hair healthy was that I did more conditioning than shampooing. I tried oiling my scalp a lot. I normally do it on Friday’s but if my scalp is itchy I’ll be oiling it frequently. I do biweekly hair wash. I don’t use heat on my hair very much. I’ll straighten it but I won’t use heat for a while sometimes I’ll do heat curls ( heat curls don’t last very long). Most of the time I’ll stretch my hair out with scrunchies and flat twists or single twists.

My hair is now thick enough for me and it’s kind of touching my shoulders (not quite there yet)

I love my hair most of the time 😂🙄. I can do puff buns, flat twist, straight hair, mini twist or braids, French braids. I can do so much to my hair now than any time before. I’m a rookie when it comes to extensions but I’m learning. I’ve been complimented a lot on my natural hair. #lemon8beauty #4cnaturalhair #naturalhairinspo

2024/3/5 Edited to

... Read more4C hair, known for its tight curls and unique texture, can indeed evoke love-hate emotions among its caretakers. Understanding how to effectively manage and maintain this hair type is essential for fostering a positive relationship with what many consider their crown. One crucial aspect is the importance of conditioning over shampooing; many find that reducing shampoo frequency helps to maintain moisture. Products containing Jamaican Black Castor Oil, known for its strengthening properties, can be beneficial to fortify fragile hair strands and support growth. It's often recommended to include lightweight oils, such as peppermint or rosemary, which not only promote a healthy scalp but also enhance shine. Additionally, routine hair stretching techniques, like flat twists and braiding, can prevent shrinkage while maintaining your desired styles, like puff buns or mini twists. Using heat minimally helps to preserve your natural curl pattern and avoid damage, allowing you to explore diverse hairstyles without compromising hair health. Moreover, embracing your natural hair and learning to love the journey of its care can lead to personal empowerment. Engaging with online communities and sharing experiences can provide valuable insights and support, making the process even more enriching. Your natural hair journey is just that—a journey. Celebrate each milestone and enjoy the wonderful versatility that comes with 4C hair!

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Nina_path99🧿

I love the African pride feel it formula!!! the shampoo is amazing!

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MissMeaghan

I love the African pride brand! I’ve only used their leave in conditioner but I am definitely going to try this oil and the shampoo thank you for sharing beautiful 💞

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